For a long time I have foccused very hard on not having an orgasm during sexual intercourse, to ensure that the woman is satisfied. Are there any other men that do this? Is it normal that after years of doing this to strugle to have an orgasm today?
2006-07-02 09:35:18 · 5 answers · asked by jeremycharles7 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah it is more normal than you think...i think that its very nice of you to do that for your girl...most men go five minutes and they are done....then thats it....men can control their orgasms...it doesnt mean that you wont have to struggle to have them later on..
2006-07-02 09:40:37 · answer #1 · answered by psychobarbie4608 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have done this also, I always want to make sure the woman is taken care of before me, but I have never had a problem with being able to orgasm.
2006-07-02 16:40:34 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tend to follow this same practice. Get the girl to orgasm a few times then go for my orgasm. another thing you can try to do, is go for a second of third time. I've done this and when a girl sees you can stay hard a second time, drives them wild.
2006-07-02 16:46:29 · answer #3 · answered by romantic_trap 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think more men experience performance anxiety than anything else. We feel this pressure to be this way or that way. Later when you are with someone with different desires we worry about meeting those needs and cause ourselves problems. My experiences have made me decide to let it go, do not worry about it and things will work and happen as they should.
2006-07-02 16:40:22 · answer #4 · answered by driver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suppose its good that you think of the womans needs but you do have to be selfish sometimes and i'm female !
2006-07-02 16:39:48 · answer #5 · answered by jennypenny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋