Me and my boyfriend have only been dating for 2 weeks, and we hit it off right away. But then he had to go and say it- I love you. I was scared, i just wanted to have fun i didnt want to fall in-love. I just wanted a boyfriend to talk to during summer, but when school starts I'll be to busy for boyfriends!!! I really like this guys, but i think things are moving to fast! what if he wants a long lasting relashionship???? Please help me!!!!
2006-07-02 09:20:32 · 24 answers · asked by jasminerjennings 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him to slow down. He cant be in love with you in only 2 weeks. You also should tell him that you are not ready for long term right now.
2006-07-02 09:23:21 · answer #1 · answered by daydreambeliever0000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him straight away that things are going too fast for you and you want to take it a little slow. If he really likes you he will understand. But don't ever tell him that you can still be friends because that will break his heart as I think he wants a serious relationship. Sometimes it just takes a moment to fall in love so don't think that just because you met him just two weeks ago his feelings for you must not be love. Trust me, I knew my husband just for three weeks before he proposed and we got married four years later and today we are happily married for the past four years with a ten month old son.
just tell him that you want this relationship to grow slowly and girl maybe you just might fall in love with him.
And my dear girl by saying that you just want a boyfriend for summer means you are being selfish. You have to make your intentions clear before dating a person. If you are not honest then you unnecessarily raise the hopes of the other person and that is what has happened with this boy. If you had told him beforehand that you are not looking towards a serious relationship he wouldn't have harbored those feelings for you. Boys are not meant for use and throw. Be careful in these matters. I hope you understand what I am trying to tell you and not do this again. All the Best and God Bless.
2006-07-02 16:31:38 · answer #2 · answered by sudjenni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u tell him that then. u r old enough to want a boyfriend then act grown up enough to be honest with him. tell him u r not sure u r ready for a longterm relationship, when school starts u dont know what if anything between u 2 will happen, tell him u do like him but ur not in love with him right now, that u may need some space soon bc school n ur future comes first be a bf.
2006-07-02 16:24:32 · answer #3 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not likely he really loves you, it's more of an infatuation at this point. but he clearly wants something serious. Since you don't, then tell him what you're looking for as of now. & you should break it off, you'll end up leading him on & that hurts more than anything. He'll be hurt, but it's the right thing to do.
2006-07-02 17:31:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him the truth, girl. You feel things are moving fast and you want them to slow down. If you break up on the grounds you mentioned you will never stop regreting it
2006-07-02 16:57:44 · answer #5 · answered by Kemo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to him that you may not have time for him during the school year...Make sure you tell him that you really like him. Let him decide if that is ok with him. Tell him about your feelings. You can't just make assumptions.
2006-07-02 16:26:37 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know right away how you feel. Someone who falls that fast is trouble. Don't get lock in a cycle where you string him along if you aren't ready.
2006-07-02 16:25:57 · answer #7 · answered by lisa t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
two weeks is way to fast to be in love it was a while before i ever said it to my gf and we had known eachother for a long time before we were dating. dont break up wit him just tell him to slow down.
2006-07-02 16:27:36 · answer #8 · answered by stump 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him about how you're feeling. Talk about what the two of you want out of the relationship and go from there.
2006-07-02 16:25:31 · answer #9 · answered by jrollo76 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah hes going way to fast , if he said i love you that quik then he does not know the meaning of love, just break up with him or tell him that all you whant is a past time nothing seriuos.
2006-07-02 16:23:35 · answer #10 · answered by futmexochoa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋