Is my boyfriend cheating or could he be using drugs or both?

Question

lately we don't spend as much time together and he says that he is trying to make money and working all the time, but lately i notice that he doesn't have money to spend and that he isn't groomed like before, when i DO see him. i do know that he has a gambling problem as well. there are times when i try to reach him and he is not available. it used to be for short periods that he would be unavailable, now it is can be hours. but he takes me around his family and introduces me as his fiance and things are so wonderful when we are together, but there is this air of mystery about him that bugs me. he lies about the dumbest things and i can just sense that he is lying. he will disappear into different rooms (bathroom or basement for long lengths of time). sometimes when we part i think that he is cheating, but he could be doing drugs with friends. all of his family adores me and he talks with me about our future. but lately i have been putting pressure on him & he has been distant. help me

Answer 1

I think you should tell a REALLY well trusted adult because if he's taking drug it's a danger to your and his health and all of your worries and his disapearing is not good for a relationship.

Answer 2

Sounds like a drug problem. You should probably break up with him cause you can,t help him untill he wants help . You can,t help someone up till they hit bottom.