what should i do or think please help!!!!!!!!!?

Question

me and my boyfriend have been goin out 4 5 days now and he txt me all day everyday and when he gets home he will call me and we will talk for about4 hours and he
said he wants a serious relastionship and i do to, but he works with his ex girlfriend .he brokeup with her and then he went out with me they went out 2 months straight and he said he never should have done it . well the other day he told me that she has been txt him and sayin that she wanted him bac ,he said he told her that he did not like her and for her to leave him alone. last night i went to the movies with my friend but my bf did not go cuz he had to work.after the movie was over he came over to c me for a while and me and my friend went over to his truck and my friend just came out and said she is way to pretty for u and he kinda got mad then she ask him if i had him whipped and he said kinda sorta then she said that i could cheat on him if i want to cuz i have cheated on guys before .i said no.

today he has not called i txt him a hour a go and he just now txt me bac do u think he is goin to break up with me or is he over his ex or wat should i do please help

Answer 1

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Answer 2

I don't really think that he iz gonna break up with you... for a simple reason that he loves you as what he said... if his x-gf has an influance over him or even he carries feeling to her he may broke up with you...this situation will clarify things to you,,, I don't think that a girl will be very pleased if she finds out that all years long her bf was cheating her by thoughts maybe and not necesserly actions... so be strong and wait for his reaction and never txt him or show any care ..

Answer 3

I don't know what your question is. Sounds like you have a good guy here; he's up front with you about breaking up with a girl he works with, and having to rebuff her. If it continues to happen, either have him set his foot down, or do it yourself. In fact, consider doing it yourself anyway. For one thing, some men like to feel that you think they're worthy to be fought over; my husband was pleased when I told him either he tell of this old friend that kept coming on to him, or I would, and I wouldn't be nearly so nice about it. He felt valued. For another thing, if your guy is cheating you, his ex may give out information about that in her attempt to defend herself.

And good for you, standing up for not cheating on him. Cheating doesn't help anything, especially if you really like him.

Answer 4

my guess your "friend" joking or not about you cheating before and may cheat on him may have made him cool down a lot and he may be waying up his options.
1 does he love you and want to be with you
2,is her friend just joking or was she serious.

to name just the top two thingshe is likely thinking about.
he may ultimately break up with you without discussing what your friend said. if he does then your better off without him i'm sure you can do better.
Phone him and TALK to him alternatively talk to him face to face be open and honest. if you have cheated in the past then be HONEST and say "I've cheated, but it was at the end of a relationship that was not working" or what ever the reason was. but if you like this guy and you think you may like to be with him for life (a Mr Right, as opposed to a Mr Right now) then you need to tell him.

BUT COMMUNICATE WITH HIM. as a rule guys are doers not communicators. WE guys are not raised to be good communicators as a general rule, there are as with everything exceptions to the rule.

good luck with this one i hope every thing works out. and to your friend tell her what your feeling towards her for putting the spanner in to your relationship.

Answer 5

Wow, you seem to have quit a mess. It sounds like you really like the guy, am i right? if so then dont cheat on him! just becuase you can doesnt mean you should... maybe it can go somewhere. As for the girlfriend, maybe you should talk about that if he says he deosnt like her he prob doesnt but if they have spent time together often then... well that might be an issue

Answer 6

dump your STUPID friend. Or at least don't let her around your boyfriend. Christ on a Cracker, is she insane? The last thing you want is your boyfriend thinking he's not good enough, he really will take his ex back (at least she wants him). Don't let her NEAR him again alone if you actually like him. Remember, friends are great but your boyfriend/lover/husband is who you STAND UP FOR even before a "friend" who actually doesn't sound much like a friend.

Answer 7

Okay... if you want the TRUTH... don't listen to what he says... look at what he does.

I think it's unlikely that he really asked her to leave him alone.

That just doesn't make sense.

If his behavior changes... I'd be concerned.

IF not... give him the benifit of the doubt.

Also, can you contact the ex? if so... I would and ask her what her take on the situation is.

Answer 8

Be careful with your heart because this look like he not over with his ex girlfriend and you are new in this picture remember he dated her for 2 month and you couple of days just be care that all I'm saying

Answer 9

It seems to me like you are not sure you want a relationship with him; I think you should give yourself some time to make sure you are ready for such a big commitment. If you are sit down and tell your boyfriend how you truly feel and then don't let he said she said stuff get in your business with your boyfriend.

Answer 10

Ummm, I would say you are probably way to young to worry about these kinda things right now... Forget the boys and worry about whats really important, your future.

Answer 11

He told you about it, so he is honest. Sounds like you have more than one question going here. The part about what your 'friend' said to him, if I were you I would ditch her for talking to him like that.