2006-07-02 09:12:05 · 21 answers · asked by johny r 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
My parents allowed me to start dating at 16. I was upset at the time, but looking back on that now I am glad that they made me wait. I think my son will not be allowed to date until he is 16.
2006-07-02 09:18:44 · answer #1 · answered by surfergirl77550 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am 15 and i have noticed that alot of the girls at my school would have someone that they called their boyfriend at the age of 9 and 10. So they werent really even dating, they just said that they were so that they would look cool. I don't see anything wrong with that. But once they get into middle school they feel pressured to start kissing and sometimes even more. And this is at the age of 13. So i dont think girls should start dating too soon. But i also think it should depend on the person. I don't believe that all girls should not be allowed to start dating until they are 16. If she is responsible then the age could be younger. You should discuss it with her and see what she thinks. Don't jump right into it. And wants she starts dating i would advise alot of supervision no matter how responsible your daughter is. You can show her that you trust her, but still care.
2006-07-02 09:23:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-07-02 11:32:56 · answer #3 · answered by #23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-07-02 09:16:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sooner she starts, the quicker she'll find out what boys really want. Then, when she comes home and tells you her boyfriend wants to 'sleep' with her, show her a video of a woman giving birth, a woman being raped, a woman living alone, and tell her to think about her actions.
And, just in case, slip the pill in her breakfast. The sooner she experiences sex for what it is (an animal instinct in every human), the quicker she'll learn what love truly means.
Although, I have a daughter, and the day she tells me she wants or has a boyfriend, I'm going to scare the crap out of him.
This is a true story: a beautiful 16-year-old girl could only date a guy if he was willing to go to her house and meet her father. When her first interested party went, her father was so kind and polite to him, the he told her daughter to fetch his wallet- while she was gone him and his brother grabbed the kid (17-year-old) dropped the poor kid's pants and got a plastic hammer from a drawer. Then he hammered the kid's testicles and said: "now you can date my daughter. Have fun!"
They dated twice and she broke up with him because they weren't 'compatible'. He took a month to recover from his swollen balls.
That's one way to seperate love from lust! Just don't get caught!
LOL
2006-07-08 05:34:55 · answer #5 · answered by canguroargentino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think 14 or 15 is good ages thats when I'm goin to let my three daughters start dating.
2006-07-07 14:21:26 · answer #6 · answered by yoyoluv27910 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the maturity level that she is at. Some 16 year olds are more mature mentally than others.
It also depends on what you mean by dating. having a boy come to your house would be o.k. at an early teen year. going out in a car at night is all togather a different story. How well do you trust your daughter. There are many differnt facets to dating. My advice is to go by your Maternal instints, they are usually never wrong!
2006-07-02 09:20:43 · answer #7 · answered by retta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-07-02 09:15:59 · answer #8 · answered by Gizmo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mum and dad continually enable me have boyfriends, yet did no longer enable me extremely circulate on dates till I grew to become sixteen. I had a boyfriend whilst i replaced into 12, and it relies upon on the guy, yet certainly maximum human beings of 12-year-olds are not going to do something undesirable with a boy at that age. Relationships that youthful are nonetheless enormously lots a shaggy dog tale, and that i do no longer in all threat see the harm in them. If I had a daughter and that i trusted her, i could enable her have a boyfriend yet i would not enable them to circulate out on dates. As for facebook, my mom did no longer enable me have one till i replaced into 14. i think of 13 is a reliable age. there is no longer something dangerous approximately facebook as long as she gadgets her profile on private and would not upload/refer to human beings she would not understand. And 13 is the criminal minimum age for facebook.
2016-11-01 02:34:57 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think your daughter is mature then when she thinks she is ready and finds a boy she likes, let her date him.
2006-07-02 10:05:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋