2006-07-02 08:35:43 · 24 answers · asked by Cristina G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Almost always. It's the guy's test. If she holds out then she is a good girl.
2006-07-02 08:39:06 · answer #1 · answered by Goblue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every guy loves the chase. How long a guy will chase you, how much effort he will put forth, differs with every guy.
Have you ever played tag with someone, ( like a little sister or brother), that stopped running relatively quickly?
It's the same effect on a guy when he gets what he wants too quickly. If you give it up on the first night, he no longer feels special, like he matters. If he can't feel special, (like it was his brilliance that got you into bed), if he feels at all like you'd do this with any other hot interesting guy, he will lose all interest.
He most certainly will lose respect for you, because deep down he knows that you shouldn't be having sex so soon in the first place.
The negative opinion is not automatic, but it almost always will follow first night sex.
2006-07-02 08:49:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kind of depends upon how horny they are and how many times they can come back.
Seriously if you have sex on the first date it tells him only one thing. You are easy...and you may not say no to very many guys.
This is unfortunate because the ones you would give it up to are there for that reason. So they have no right judging you as they no doubt do the same thing.
But...just to make it more confusing. Not all men do. They are just happy that you find them attractive enough to do that with them.
Glad I could clear that up for you!
2006-07-02 08:46:32 · answer #3 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally speaking, a gentleman would not want to sleep with a lady on their first date. However, a scum is attracted to a scum therefore, anything can be expected. My answer to your question would be "YES". Guy's do think girls are cheap when giving it up on 1st date. Another thing is, if a man is looking for a wife (vice versa), this kind of behavior he/ she would not display. Remember, all guys are not the same. Most of them do have class.
2006-07-02 08:51:37 · answer #4 · answered by Reidi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would. This shows that the woman is not mature enough to want to get to know a guy before they get intimate. Personally I do not like that a lot of the younger generation take sex so casually. I tend to be old fashion that you need to get to know the other prior to sleeping with them. My first girlfriend and I did it on our second official date, but we were friends and she had dated my best friend prior so that I knew her well before we got together. My current girlfriend and I were friends for a year before we started to date.
2006-07-02 08:41:45 · answer #5 · answered by andy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It's messed up. The guy wants to have sex, but if you give it to him on the first date then he wonders how many other men you have been with.
2006-07-02 08:40:46 · answer #6 · answered by soleofsoul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is particularly no longer something incorrect with it in any respect. do no longer pay attention to what different human beings say. If human beings wanna be racist approximately then they are the only's that are low and have a situation. Be pleased with it!
2016-12-14 03:41:37 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am married to the girl that gave it up to me on the first date
2006-07-02 08:38:35 · answer #8 · answered by bryan b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All of my male friends say "yes".
The girl is too easy and will have sex with every guy she has a date with.
They don't respect or trust them.
2006-07-02 08:40:48 · answer #9 · answered by Molly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. If she gives it up to me on the first date, I assume that she's given it up to every guy she's dated. That puts her solidly in the 'whore' catergory.
2006-07-02 08:38:00 · answer #10 · answered by Robert B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋