If you don't mind responding to this, what are the good characteristics of...?

Question

A man who DID cry at his wife's pain in labor and delivery now that your children are older and you are not on the L&D suite anymore in pain? What good characteristics does your lucky catch posses also? Does he help with the baby? What does he do to help? Does he leave it all to you? Does he help with the house works and details? Just curious...

Sadmamma

Please be honest.

Answer 1

I do mind responding THAT
but I must say that man is a GAY

Answer 2

I read some of the other answers and it pissed me off ! I cried when my daughter was born ( and i'm not ashamed to say it )and even cut the cord. I would come home after work and take over the care of my baby cus i knew my wife was tired AND because i love her and wanted to spend time with my baby. NOW i'm a single dad and have been since she was 4 yrs. old. My ex wife turned out to be abusive and neglectful and I have full custody. So I do everything a mom and dad does and even tho it is hard sometimes I would not trade her for anything. I think what it boils down to is how much you love your wife and kids. If I ever get married again I will still help around the house and with any more kids that we might have. Tho it would be nice to have someone else help do the laundry...lol. I love being a father and I think it is something that is inside you. ANYONE can be a father but only us good ones can be called DADDY !!!!!

Answer 3

Some men are just more emotional than others. It's not a good or bad characteristic if a man crys at the birth of his child. I would be watching more for the look in his eyes when he is holding the baby.
Most men are tired (and so are we) when they get home. Try not to expect to much of him and you should take it easy as well. Make simple suppers. Ask him to take the baby while you clean up. Then go have a nice bath.
Believe me, you'll feel alot better. Things will get easier as your child gets older.

Answer 4

I was a single mom and didn't want the "father/sperm donater" to be a part of my son's life, so I did probably 95% of EVERYTHING with occasional help from friends/parents; However, if the father is in the picture, then get his lazy, insecure butt moving and have him help with all that comes with having a child! Including changing, feeding, laundry, taking out for walks, letting YOU sleep; otherwise, it's the 2006 idea of "olden days" when moms were expected to do it all; I don't care if he works full time or not;

Answer 5

I think the man should also help you with the baby. As parents, BOTH of you have the responsibility in raising the child. But with the household chores, I think it is the woman's role. If the man is willing to help, then you are blessed with a wonderful husband. If not, no big deal...

Answer 6

my husband and i split everything 50/50 he does dishes vacuums washes and folds laundry i always put away clothes because i have certain spots i like things to go we always took turns getting up with our kids when they were infants now that they are older during the school year he gets up with the kids and gets them off because i work in the mornings and he works evenings. but we treat each other at as equals it never about who does more or who makes more money. this is key to a good marriage

Answer 7

I think a good man would want to help with the baby and be there. I mean a women doesn't get pregnant all by herself ya know!?

Answer 8

A man should be waited on hand and foot, don't expect him to help out with the baby. I mean, damn, he worked his *** off to give you that crying thing, the least you could do is make him a sandwich.

Answer 9

My husband does ALL the cooking(he's better at it, We both do house work, He works overtime to bring the money in and he's overly affectionate :)

Answer 10

i work while he stays home watches the baby and clean

**** but i cook i dont trust him cooking****