me and my friends were having a 4some with these two guys that we thought were pretty hott that are 15, and now my friends pregnant and she has no idea which of them is the father and shes only 14, and i'm 14 to so i dunno what to do to help her, and shes afraid to tell her dad because she has know mom parents what should she do?
2006-07-02 08:28:14 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
sorry to say but she has to tell her parents. she is too young and emotional to figure this out on her own. and you are too young and emotional to be able to help her. she and her parents will have to figure out if they want to have the child or have an abortion. if they are going to have the baby then they will have to do test to see who the father is. it is an unfortunate thing to happen but there are no easy answers in a situation like this. if she will not tell her parents please have her go to a place that can help her like planned parenthood or a doctor. they are much more experience in a situation like this and should have good advice on what to do.
2006-07-02 08:38:12 · answer #1 · answered by cesar g 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
She needs to tell her Dad he gonna find out sooner or later.
Her father from what you have described does not sounds like he would hurt her or verbally degrade her if he found out. By the way since you guys were not using protection you both need to see a doctor to test you for std's. Most of all I hope that you take what happened to your friend as a wake up call. You are both so young now she is faced with raising a child when she is one herself. If you don't want to be next use protection (condoms)talk to your parents about birth control or stop having sex the last one is the best way to ensure you will not be 14 and pregnant too.
Babies are not dolls that can't be put away in toy box for awhile and some std's have no cure ie aids and herpes.
I wish your friend the best it's not going to be easy but she has to tell her Dad the truth.
2006-07-02 08:43:08 · answer #2 · answered by Blessed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UNBELIEVABLE!!!! That is the most absurd thing I have heard in my lifetime!! Really!!! #1 you shouldn't have even put yourselves in that position at 14!! #2 you should have used protection!! She is going to have to tell her parents sometime!! Also try and make an appointment at Planned Parenthood. They have all kinds of resources there! After the baby is born she can go on Maury and find out who the father might be!!! You guys are absolutely unbelievable!! All of you!! Shame on you!
2006-07-02 08:34:44 · answer #3 · answered by MNM0103 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all... that is NOT something you should be doing at your age, let alone at all. Do you have any idea how many STDs are floating around? Have you had health class???
Secondly, she should tell her dad. She is a minor, so he will have to help her make a decision as to what she should do (whether to abort or keep or give up for adoption).
Third, if she decides to have it, she will have to have the two BOYS have a paternity test.
I hope she (and you) learned a lesson.
2006-07-02 08:33:39 · answer #4 · answered by sour_apple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is so pathetic and disgusting that I am not even going to bother trying to help you. You nasty a$$ children deserve what is coming to you, and if you're already doing stuff like that when you are just a baby I give you 2 years before you get an STD and you better hope it's not a lethal and incurable one.
2006-07-02 08:52:41 · answer #5 · answered by Queen D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's going to have to talk to her dad sooner or later... pregnancy doesn't just go away if you ignore it, and if she's going to bring a baby into the world, she needs to start preparing now with proper nutrition for both her and the baby. To find out who the father is, there's always blood type testing, and if that's inconclusive, there's DNA testing. Just because the circumstances weren't ideal, it doesn't mean he's off the hook. Or maybe she ought to write to Montel Williams (is he still doing his show?).
2006-07-02 08:35:15 · answer #6 · answered by Muddy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am the father. I crawled under the sheets while the lights were off and the rest is history. When the baby is born, just have doctors perform the DNA test. When neither of the two suspects match, then you'll know what I said is true.
2006-07-02 08:32:10 · answer #7 · answered by FrozenCloud 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If I was the father, I would lock my daughter up and deal with raising the child within our family and force my daughter to act in a moral and appropriate way.
I would also hunt down and kill the two boys. And I would get away with it.
2006-07-02 08:33:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her butt to Maury
and tell her not to go around sayin she's a 110% sure she knows hes the father cus she'll look like a fool
2006-07-02 10:51:41 · answer #9 · answered by Maria*&*Maritza's Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is Maury Povich show still on? I am sure he can help, stop engaging in this type of behaviour or I am afraid we will see you on a Jerry Springer episode in the near future
2006-07-02 08:36:24 · answer #10 · answered by fireciao 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋