but get mad when the thing that they did wrong happens agains does that make sense 2 u if it does explain clearly
2006-07-02 08:25:23 · 12 answers · asked by shredder97 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The truth is that many women think that others will act and react as they do. Women pay attention to the stuff a guy does and we notice stuff - we think that a man does the same thing. Women are afraid of being called a nag, so they don't want to complain, so they drop hints (hints that seem very obvious to them and other women often times - and then it hurts their feelings when you don't notice at all, because she thinks he is ignoring her or not paying attention, since everyone else she knows thinks it was a obvious sign).
It is not that mysterious. Men and women are different and many of us don't honor that. We need to stop getting angry and reacting and say what does that mean or that makes me angry and here's why. We need to lovingly communicate with each other, but unfortunately many of us have gotten so used to being kind to every other person they meet and then "relaxing" at home and being impatient or short with our loved ones.
Be kind to each other. Peace!
2006-07-02 08:37:03 · answer #1 · answered by carole 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes that makes sense but I do tell my man when he has done something wrong but he chooses not to listen and then I give up telling him so he doesn't nag me so he can't work out what is wrong because he didn't listen in the first place so the chances are that the woman did tell you what was wrong but you didn't listen.
2006-07-02 15:27:54 · answer #2 · answered by Evil J.Twin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's because they are afraid to actually say what's wrong and it's easier to ignore the problem and think that other people can figure it out on their own than to actually talk about something. I think it's immature. And I am a woman.
2006-07-02 15:32:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because guys need that stuff spelled out for them in 12 different languages and written on a post-it. women would just rather them take the subtle hints the first time
2006-07-02 15:30:29 · answer #4 · answered by alpha_xi_delta2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I know what you are saying. I think alot of it is in the way that a person tells one ie: no one likes to be screamed at or demeaned just to intelligently discuss a problem.
http://www.biblebelievers.com/AllThis.html
2006-07-02 15:30:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. When a woman does this, she does not care at all about whatever it is you did. She wants to be ****** and this is her way of goading you into it.
2006-07-02 15:30:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because men arent wrong and they are not sorry and its probably gonna happen again
2006-07-02 15:28:44 · answer #7 · answered by blackprincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it makes things worse of course!
2006-07-02 15:33:10 · answer #8 · answered by MsJ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because it makes the situation worse. believe me i have been there and done that
2006-07-02 15:27:31 · answer #9 · answered by ky_sydney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it wouldn't get better even if they do.. men wouldn't listen hah
2006-07-02 15:29:28 · answer #10 · answered by yaz20100 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋