i have, unfortunately, cheated on almost every boyfriend i've had and i've finally found one that i truly love and would die if i hurt him. i have changed for him. he has lied to me once, about something not-so-serious, but i dont know if he is willing to change his attitude for me because he used to use girls and not care about their feelings....he tells me that i've changed him for the better and that im the first one that he's ever called beautiful and sincerely loved. do you think thats true and i'll stop worrying about it??
2006-07-02 08:19:59 · 8 answers · asked by porkydd 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Everyone makes mistakes and what you did in the pass should not reflect your future. You cannot change a man it is impossible. When you boyfriend tells you that you are the only one he called beautiful and you are only one he has love it's a lie. I did not know how old you are but I know you cannot be that naive. Please do not expect this man to change for you. You have to be honest with yourself and take the good with the bad. Bad is he might not change and he could break you heart. Good is every you go through in life is experience. Do not put all your expections in a man.
2006-07-02 08:42:03 · answer #1 · answered by Disha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that only you can make that call. If you love him and you truly want to be with him without cheating etc. then I think that you are going to have to trust him when he says that he's changed. If you can't trust him then you can't stay in the relationship because you will always wonder if he is with someone else. You need to put your suspitions aside and put your whole heart in and trust him just like he is doing with you.
2006-07-02 15:23:18 · answer #2 · answered by deppfreak6963 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful. If he has lied already he might be lieing again but hopefully he wasnt and really thinks your beautiful to him. Good Luck :)
2006-07-02 15:23:29 · answer #3 · answered by SingleGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop worrying!
relax and enjoy the moments. over analyzing things will just cause cracks in the relationship!
2006-07-02 15:23:19 · answer #4 · answered by Jan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he truly loves u then he wont cheat on you or lie to u but if he does cheat on you jist get over him
2006-07-02 15:33:04 · answer #5 · answered by "MXWA4LIFE" 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way of telling you the future, but what go's around, comes around.
2006-07-02 15:23:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop worrying about it you might make it worst asking him questions. Just be cool.
2006-07-02 15:23:27 · answer #7 · answered by jerryhmusic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about your fears
2006-07-02 15:26:26 · answer #8 · answered by amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋