I love him dearly. He has feelings for me. But I'm not sure if they are at the same level as mine. He's not the most emotional guy on the planet and I'm cool with that. But a girl needs answers. We've been dating for about 5 years now. Ther's an 11 year difference between us. He's 35 and I'm 24. I just need to know where I stand before I finish my degree and start my own career path. Am I nuts?
2006-07-02 08:07:32 · 7 answers · asked by Stormfire 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe you two should sit down and talk your future together.
2006-07-02 08:12:01 · answer #1 · answered by Jillypooh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T DO IT!!! So he's been dating you since you were 19 and still hasn't made a move in that direction.....if you want to know where the relationship is going just talk to him. You don't have to make any demands but tell him that you're looking to settle down and wanted to see if both of you are headed in the same direction. If he says he's not ready for that then after 5 years it's likely he'll never be ready.....with you. I wouldn't propose if I were you, let the man do it.
2006-07-02 15:17:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is anything wrong with asking where do u see yourself in 5 years. But if your talking about proposing, that's traditionally the guys job
2006-07-02 15:12:08 · answer #3 · answered by morgysan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better to wait.
2006-07-02 15:10:57 · answer #4 · answered by sa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, better to wait
2006-07-02 15:13:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, he should ask you
2006-07-02 15:16:40 · answer #6 · answered by crzyernie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-07-02 15:11:16 · answer #7 · answered by jojolds135 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋