No INCEST here! What’s wrong if I have such CLOSE relationship with MY own future SISTER-IN-LAW…?!?

Question

We're both so closed and we love to share about anything... especially about our love and sex life, how we masturbate and “play” ourselves, how we "perform" on bed, how we "satisfy" our guys when make love, and how to reach orgasm again and again...

Some people said to me that I'm kinda freak by doing that... why? I mean I love her, really love her... I've stopped considering her as my boyfriend's sister long time ago... I've considered her as my OWN sister! My boyfriend is going to propose me soon, so she is MY sister-in-law! Besides, I talk about sex with her... not have sex with her... although, sometimes I fantasize about her while masturbating... LOL!! ;)

I’m a bisexual, and both she and his brother know this fact already. Instead, they accept me just the way I am, that’s why I REALLY love them both! I’m so happy and proud to be part of their family! My boyfriend and his sister are orphan and they live together… just the two of them (it’ll be three of us if I married her brother, LOL!!). They both are so caring and loving each other… that’s why his sister can accept me easily with her open hand!

What do you all think then? Am I really freak or weird or something here...?

Answer 1

My "sister" who is not my biological sister, but a best friend turned sister and I talk about everything. Nothing you mentioned except maybe the fantasizing about her, sounds any different than the discussions I have with my sister. Having someone you can be that open and honest with is a very special thing. You are not a freak, you are a female!!

Answer 2

You are going to have problem.In place of the sister of your boy friend, consider if it would have been his brother.Would you be having orgasms from both of them and would be fantasizing about both of them?The same is the situation here although the sex of the sibling might be different.And how do you think you would be talking to a sister regarding the sexual intimacy with the brother; I mean all the details, without arousing her ? Ultimately, are you going to be 3 some? So, what do you think is the implication for the future ? If your boy friend is satisfying you, where is the need for any further relationship unless one is a deviant sexually ? Don't you still find any reason to visit a therapist ? Yes I forgot, I saw plenty of them on the answer on this question, considering it very normal and even womanly ! Think for your self and for your future husband and also for the whole of future family.

Answer 3

I am against the whole incest matter for the fact that sibling are suppose to be raised based as a loving family and by loving I don't intend on the nature having sexual undertones. The thought of me having a sexual relationship with my brother, step brother or half brother seems unnatural and growsome. However looking back at past events (even those of a hundreds years ago ro so all the way back to ancient times) brother sister relations were not uncommon. They felt obligated to keep family ties closely knitted. Keep blood pure. My boyfriend's brother married his first cousin. And that's about just as unnature in my opinion. But seriously there are people who find no offense to the idea and even marry adopted sibling. Woody Allen married his ADOPTED daughter.

Answer 4

I think you are heading for some problems here with sharing intimacy too much with your future sister-in-law, especially since you shared that you are bisexual. Your major intimacy should be with your boyfriend. I think you could be drawn into a physical relationship with her....so be careful and choose the one of the two you want to be intimate with. I think you are not very self aware if you can't see the problems this presents between your boyfriend and his sister and you. I think you are all headed for some heartache.

Answer 5

Its odd, but I don't think there is anything wrong with you. I'm very open with my mother about my sex life. I don't go into a lot of detail, but its my mom, not a sister. Its good to have such a close relationship with her! Most in-laws hate each other!! Don't worry about it or what other people think. Blessed be

Answer 6

I don't speak about that sort of thing to my own biological sister, to whom I am very close. I don't think you should talk about such very intimate things with anyone other than your husband. Most women will talk a little bit about their love life to their mother, sister, or best friend, but masturbation tips are rather taboo.

Answer 7

I think the whole thing is borderline. So it doesn't bother her that you tell her about sex with her brother? Also, yeah, I'll share sex tidbits with my friends... But not ones who I also happen to think are hot. It's all a little too close to home. But I guess whatever suits the three of you, as long as she doesn't get pregnant with her brother's kid or something....

Answer 8

Well, it is a really weird situation you have to admit! If you and she want to talk about sex or whatever, that is your business. we all have friends we confide in. Nothing weird about that. Just don't turn the situation into a menage a trois or anything and there should be no problem.

Answer 9

It doesn't sound like you talk about anything different than the girls on "Sex and the City" did. As long as the relationship doesn't cross the line into sex, there's nothing wrong with it.

Answer 10

It is a little unusual to talk to your boyfriend's sister about that thing. But I say it is not different than her being your own sister. It is a good thing you are close with his sister. It is always good to get along with your boyfriend's family.