If he can not wait, that means he is with you only for that sole purpose. I would not recommend getting into a relationship like that. Most guys will understand, and a descent guy will respect your rights, and will support you in that desicion. Good Luck.
2006-07-02 07:14:40
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answered by Anonymous
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This is really a tough question these days. If you have sex with him, you are considered easy, a player, a tramp, the list goes on and on. If you refuse, you are considered a ****tease. So you feel pressure both ways. The answer should be in your heart. Even if you really really care about someone, you should not have sex until you are ready. Sex creates an emotional intimacy that can't be ignored esp for girls. And this can be any sexual act - so don't be fooled. Do not "go for it" until your brain is ready.
Any guy that really cares about YOU will respect you for it. You are worth the wait!
2006-07-02 14:23:44
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answered by petlover 5
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If he doesn't understand that you do not intend to have sex with him, even after you make it clear to him that you're not like that, then you should break up with him.
When dating, you need a guy who is on the same page and agrees with you about how your relationship will work. If he's not on your side of this decision then you deserve better.
Women are to be respected, and if your boyfriend can't respect your decision to respect your body, then you can find a better guy.
2006-07-02 14:17:45
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answered by Anonymous
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If he respects you then he will understand, if he does not care then he is not worth it and you should find a guy that is worth it. If ends up in a break up then oh well, you will find another guy. Your still young and you have enough time to wait and have sex.
2006-07-02 14:17:27
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answered by Jillypooh 2
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you shouldnt feel pressured to have sex with a guy becsaue you go out on a date with him...he really shouldnt even expect a kiss...if you want thave sex with him that your deal...but I would wait for some one special because you v card is something you never get back...but dont have sex with him becuasey out go out on a date with him
2006-07-02 14:15:36
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answered by rdbowles12390 3
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a guy his age usually is looking for the score so if he doesn't understand you and agree then I suggest you say goodbye to him and kick him out the door
2006-07-02 14:13:55
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answered by fallen.angel_love 1
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Who cares what they "think?"
Go out because you want to have fun and get to know someone. Pay for half if you don't want to feel "obligated"
If you can't say "no" then you're not mature enough for dating.
2006-07-02 14:17:11
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answered by R J 7
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you got to find a guy who will understand you or ELSE
2006-07-02 14:13:30
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answered by DaPunk 3
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its possible when you find the right guy, if he wont wait then he aint worth it, cause you set your worth,
2006-07-02 14:13:39
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answered by Anonymous
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maybe..... he cant wait.. o well dump him then i guess
2006-07-02 14:12:51
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answered by JOJO 2
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