I have been best friends with a girl going on 3 years, and I have fallen in love with her, but i don,y have the guts to tell her I know she sees other men but tells me she does not, what should I do I cant eat or sleep thinking about her.
2006-07-02 06:52:38 · 12 answers · asked by JOHN T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell her how you feel, or you will regret it forever!!!
2006-07-02 06:54:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how u really feel about her because u never know later she is going to have a boyfriend that she loves and he loves her, And then u would of never let her know how u feel. So tell her soon because time goes by fast. And u might never have a chance like u have right now to tell her. Good luck
2006-07-02 13:57:53 · answer #2 · answered by celloplayer4eva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should kiss her...I had this same exact thing happen to me...I know it sucks...but you have do something major to get her attention...all I know is that my friends told me to kiss the girl I liked and I didnt do it...and then when I talked to her once she got a b/f...she told me that he just kissed her and that is what really got her attention and that if I had done the smae she might have fell for me...it really sucked...so just go for it...you really have nothing to lose...and I can guarantee you...if she doesnt like you, you will probably not want to see her for a while anyways so even if it ruins the friendship it might be the best thing for you.
2006-07-02 14:07:48 · answer #3 · answered by rdbowles12390 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray and ask God to give you the wisdom and strength find someone of self respect and quality who can appreciate and respect you with honesty and sincerity. You deserve a good person in your life that you can trust with your heart. This person is obviously not someone that you can trust with your heart. Dont spend anymore of your life in heartbreak.
2006-07-02 13:57:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about it. b4 its too late. u will have regrets if you choose not to. you never know she might have feeling for you, if she says she dont see anyone else. i went through this and found talkingabout it helps. just tell her something like . we shouldnt see each other as much and shell ask why? and thats when you say "im falling for you" and im scared it will wreck our friend ship. at the most you will loose closeness of your friend. good luck john!!!
2006-07-02 13:57:11 · answer #5 · answered by Munch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her your feelings, perhaps she feels the same and that is why she doesn't tell you she is seeing other men. Out of a fear of sending you away.
2006-07-02 13:57:44 · answer #6 · answered by prinsessbrat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to be honest and tell her trust me by the time you get the guts to it may be too late
2006-07-02 13:59:24 · answer #7 · answered by sxyhoney22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow john , you need some help here. get some flowers go to her door and ask her out. flowers are a good way to start talking. if that doesnt work ...i am sorry
2006-07-02 13:56:40 · answer #8 · answered by cody 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER MISS A CHANCE TO SAY I LOVE YOU! Tell her! If you don't, you'll beat yourself up about it forever, wonderin what could of been!
2006-07-02 13:56:24 · answer #9 · answered by MB's Gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her I had some thing like this and take it frome some one how nows and pleas tell her
2006-07-02 14:09:03 · answer #10 · answered by sinderala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
but honest with her and see what happens. u never know.
2006-07-02 13:54:36 · answer #11 · answered by dutch1584 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋