if your in arelationship with this dude and you liked him at first then you just got tired of him being around how do you tell him its over without him getting mad
2006-07-02 06:47:51 · 21 answers · asked by brittany b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you have to be honest, tell him you dont want to hurt him, but your feelings have changed, dont think to hard about what to say,just speak from the heart. its important to make it seem like its not a big deal. if you make a big deal about it, so will he, if you act like its nothing, he will too
2006-07-02 06:51:17 · answer #1 · answered by billy a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is often hard. First of all I am a guy and I think I can help..Maybe! I think the best way is face to face, but everyone is different. Also when you do tell him the number one rule is never beat around the bush. Good luck.
2006-07-02 06:51:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most dudes get mad cause they have this ego thing but just tell him you think it would be best not to "date" anymore and that you want to be tied to anyone. If he gets mad tell him to take it like a man and get over it.
2006-07-02 06:51:59 · answer #3 · answered by melbow35 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Him getting mad might be inevitable. So if you really don't like the relationship, end it as soon as possible so that you don't hurt his feeling even more by dragging it out.
2006-07-02 06:50:33 · answer #4 · answered by johnnyBgoode 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were infatuated with a guy, what you do is not to let him go rudely try and keep him as a friend, and drop every idea he has as to do with dating. He will appreciate otherwise shun him.
2006-07-02 06:51:38 · answer #5 · answered by cidieschat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh i have that problem too and its a pain in the ***. Just tell him you miss the friendship you two had before you were going out.
2006-07-02 06:50:24 · answer #6 · answered by nativepride72032 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him the truth. Lies always come back to bite you in the end.
2006-07-02 06:50:14 · answer #7 · answered by bkemt6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him no matter how you say it hes going to be mad anyways!or just a little hurt.
2006-07-02 06:50:28 · answer #8 · answered by little_miss_cutie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this point who cares if he gets mad....You just tell him...sorry, your just not doing it for me anymore.
2006-07-02 06:50:55 · answer #9 · answered by werk2much2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh ... you tell him that its not him...ur just not relaxed from urself and the most important thing is not letting him know that he made stg wrong k? you can say "hi....(sweet talkin)...well these days i am so depressed...i need time for me alone..."
2006-07-02 06:55:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋