I seem to be attracted to really nice men who have no goals, no drive, no vision for their future. They seem to always want too much of my time and I don't have it to give to them. Am I being too picky? I want to date (like go on an actual date to an actual place). I want to feel excited about these people but I don't. I don't want to jump into a relationship, but I want to feel special. Now I just feel alone. When I go back and talk to people I have dated I find that we do not date now b/c I wanted more from life. Am I going to be alone forever? I only care about this when I realize how my life lacks any real companionship---when I realize that I do not talk to anyone besides myself.
2006-07-02 06:37:09 · 6 answers · asked by jandracu 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
join the club............alone forever club.....that's what i'm working on too
2006-07-02 06:41:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Statistics show that single women live longer than married women. So maybe there's something to be said for being alone.
Perhaps you should seek another route to make yourself feel special. Like an activity or involvement with a group.
2006-07-02 06:50:46 · answer #2 · answered by klunk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want or need to settle for just anyone. I don't think you are being too picky. Until you find the right person, get a dog, for companionship. Don't lower your expectations.
2006-07-02 06:49:01 · answer #3 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe you're being picky at all. You seem to know what you want,and as my grandma always told me;;;Anything worth having is worth waiting for.Be patient.your somebody is out there.
2006-07-02 06:48:46 · answer #4 · answered by bugadont 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur not going to be alone forever just keep trying. you'll get somewhere.
2006-07-02 06:40:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
feel same way
2006-07-02 06:48:03 · answer #6 · answered by xzhou11377 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋