can some one please help me?

Question

ok im a 16 high student and ive been talking to a guy for about 4 months. Me and this guy dated my freshmen year but i dumped him for a jounior who i thoguh was a nice guy. My problem is this summer me and the guy im talking to havent seen each other casue we live so far way , so one day i was going out and stuipdly i invited the jounior kid and we ended up hooking up. I told the guy that im tlaking and surpisely he was ok with it at first but then he started saying how i was dirty and that he will never trust me again pretty much makeing me feel like s**t and throwing it back in my face and i dont like it... i know wat i did was wrong but i dont know what i should do.. do i have the right to get mad or should i jsut grin and bear it?plez help

Answer 1

You're 16 and nobody's perfect, so sometimes you'll do things you'll regret later. Don't be too harsh on yourself for what you did; understand that the guy you're talking to is upset by it and give him a chance to cool down and apologize for what he said to you.

You might want to avoid seeing the junior (at all) if you know that things won't work out in the long run, because you seem to still be attracted to him. That attraction isn't your fault, but you can decide what to do about it. As for the other guy, if you tell him that he has hurt your feelings and he still doesn't apologize, maybe he's not right for you either.

Good luck! It might take some time to find a relationship that works for you, but you'll probably get there eventually. Have fun and try to forgive mistakes, including your own.

Answer 2

if you know that it was a stupid mistake, then maybe you should talk to him about it. explain that you are not planning on doing it again ( if you in fact are not)...maybe he just likes you again, and wants you to date him? thats just my outsiders opinion. but other than that, my suggestion is just talk to him...there is no reason to get mad, but you should not put up with him either. ....good luck!