So I had a friend for several years and we hungout all the time...everyday...night..whatever we were together all through high school and by the time we got to college knew everything about eachother and were roomates....all other friends who roomed together stopped being friends...We got closer and eventually became renters of a house together...As of five months ago we were talking about how much we meant to eachother and somehow ended up kissing and we were ok with it...we have now established that we are not gay...per say...but really care for eachother and that we can love eachother..but this sexual side has not developed until now but feels so right with every ounce of my body...however neither of us act gay or consider ourselves gay...it's so hard to explain and we can't be housemates forever....this seems so messed up but it's like there is no other web I would rather be tangled in....What are your opinons? Do you think this should stop immediatly? Could this possibly work out
2006-07-02 06:18:54 · 9 answers · asked by gron2004 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok I thought I should add that we both are males number one...and that I don't really care about labels..gay, bi, straight it doesn't matter to me...I also know I have never had feeling for any boy besides this one and that we are to the point where it is not some stupid fling...we used to be little whores with girls over all the time...but after that kiss it is like it broke the ice foreverything...comunication has opened between us and we pretty much haven't done anything except with eachother sexually in the last five months....Our friends don't know nor do they have to....its just new to me...thats all
2006-07-02 06:34:36 · update #1
First - you love your best friend. That is good, your love should be your best friend.
You say you are not gay, but you have kissed and you feel you want more. Does your friend feel the same way? If so... then forget about labeling yourself and just be happy you have found a partner/companion for life. Life is too short to worry about what other people think.
Good Luck to you.
2006-07-02 06:22:56 · answer #1 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There Is Nothing Wrong In Falling For A Friend,Who Says You Need To Be Homosexual Only,You Could Also Be Bisexual.If You Are Not Too Sure I Suggest That You Spend Some Time Separately If Possible Just To Check Whether This Relation Is Just A Fling Or Has Lifelong Potential.Only Then U Can Decide What Your Truly Desire...
2006-07-02 13:28:26 · answer #2 · answered by Sid Lee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in the same situation sort of and i went for it. The girl in question and i had a great time but ended up parting ways and I'm back to dating guys but if it feels right you'll never know until you try. Good Luck. I hope the best for you.
2006-07-02 13:24:09 · answer #3 · answered by smartblonde060 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... sounds like you may not be completely gay... more like bisexual. I think that you should just go with what feels right to you. I think if both of you have the same feelings as you do, it could work out great for ya'll. But if it is just an endearing curiousity, then you should let it go.
2006-07-02 13:25:02 · answer #4 · answered by MB's Gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That Depends What Kind Of Love Your Talking About?
2006-07-02 13:23:11 · answer #5 · answered by mks 7-15-02 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him with every ounce of your body, and can't ever picture your life without him. My example is I deeply love my best friend we are lovers, we are also the opposite sex, he is my best friend and boyfriend. I do love him with every ounce of my body. But, is your situation different then mine? I don't see how, anyway, are you two gay? I think it is beautiful that friends love each other so much.
2006-07-02 13:27:44 · answer #6 · answered by amazon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not gay. your just reeeeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaaalllllly good friends. but what do would you call yourself if u are in love with a guy? i can't think of anything.
2006-07-02 13:24:18 · answer #7 · answered by lollypop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tricky i think you should stop and work at trying to be normal again.some one could get hurt.
2006-07-02 13:24:08 · answer #8 · answered by Kevin G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not work out with that go ask a gurl
2006-07-02 13:24:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋