When you find out someone doesn't like u when u have been attached 2 them 4 so long (even if u did not go out w/ them), is it natural 2 feel kinda numb inside? Like u expect pain but whenever u try 2 express yourself u don't really feel anything? What does this mean?
2006-07-02 06:18:47 · 8 answers · asked by 77684 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I try 2 stay away from this person. I'm a little angry but whenever I want 2 cry I never can.
2006-07-02 06:24:49 · update #1
Denial, denial, denial.
Or maybe the person doesn't mean as much to you as you'd like to think, or maybe you expected it.
There's not such thing as right emotion, it's a volatile, subjective thing which follows whims & fancies, not a definitive path.
2006-07-02 06:22:33 · answer #1 · answered by Alqarine 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
The way you feel is normal. It is very much like being dumped by someone who you have been with for along time. Feeling numb is a sign that this has had a huge impact on you. Your emotions can shut down for a while so your brain can sort of process it all. Ussually these numb feelings can be followed by a deep depression. To help counter that it is best to start talking to someone about how you feel now.
2006-07-02 13:24:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a normal reaction when you find out something like that. It will be better after you cry a bit and release the tension, and emotion you have bottled up. Go ahead and cry......I do when I get hurt.Tears "wash" your eyes, and help you to see better. Sorry for your loss!
2006-07-02 13:25:52 · answer #3 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its alright for this to happen. It happened with me. Some one i really loved died(not family) and after his death i came to know that he didnt even knew abt me. he just thought of me as a pitier. (i pity his faith) He didnt knew that i love him. After he died i expected to cry a lot and shouting but nothing happened. I even forced myself to tears but they never came. Its normal. Now i realize that maybe it was bcoz my emotions for him werent real after all. Or maybe i was so much in shock that i never got over it.
It cud be the same for u. If that person doent like u then u have to detach urself frm him/her. It will be really really hard. but once u will move far from him/her that person will realize u r importance and if really felt smth for u then he wil come after u. if he dosent then move on. HE just wasnt the one.
And also see why he/she dosent like u. Maybe it was u r fault or mistake. If so then apologize.
2006-07-02 13:36:02 · answer #4 · answered by Ali 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds something like and emotional shock like when someone dies. Some people cannot express there emotions right away but they will eventually come.
2006-07-02 13:23:56 · answer #5 · answered by rodeomommy1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds pretty normal to me. You'll be better once you find a new person to look at.
2006-07-02 13:22:04 · answer #6 · answered by joloaz213 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Emotions aren't right or wrong they just are.
2006-07-02 13:22:18 · answer #7 · answered by Rex R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you're human, and alive.
2006-07-02 13:24:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋