i have been with my boyfriend for four years hes been hitting me aswell
i going to leave dont u worry i cheated on him twice once with my mums boyfriend son and once with another person but he hit me before i cheated and after now i think i really like my mothers boyfriend son.and i dont know if he intrested.My mum does not approve andd i still like him i dont know wot to do hope u can understand this if not i add details but please help so i going around in circles
2006-07-02 06:08:18 · 6 answers · asked by yates1239 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
iam 20 years old my boyfriends 28 my mothers boyfriend son is 25 and my mothers 47
2006-07-02 06:09:57 · update #1
I think you both need a miracle
http://www.biblebelievers.com/AllThis.html
2006-07-02 06:10:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like it's time to work on YOURSELF. get some help to feel SAFE in leaving your current abusive "boyfriend". and you do NOT need another boyfriend NOW. it is time to find your OWN respect for yourself so you will NEVER again allow another to abuse you. WHEN you polish yourself and are radiating the LOVELINESS THAT YOU TRULY ARE then a special loving partner will appear before you. so don't focus on the needs of these men, your mum, or anyone else except YOU (and your children, if you have any). you are an ADULT and must take care of yourself in this world. choose a school or a job or a project and BE YOUR BEST SELF in this pursuit. this daily work of being your BEST self will OPEN doors you may have never thought possible. until you set your sights ahead and walk straight for your dreams, you will ALWAYS be going around in circles. PEACE AND GOOD FORTUNE TO YOU!
2006-07-02 13:34:10 · answer #2 · answered by annielily 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, First of all if your boyfriend beats you LEAVE!!! every time I hear a woman say she is getting beat I ask myself why is she still living with the man. About the cheating take it easy are you not having enough problems with one man. As for your mothers boyfriend son if you do not know if he is interested then why try to get involved. I agree with your mother. Leave your boyfriend, stay alone for a while straighten up your life, you are very mixed up, so for now just leave men out of the picture. Find yourself, dedicate your time to your job, school, and most of all your self esteem. Take care of you first. I wish you luck!!!!
2006-07-09 02:49:18 · answer #3 · answered by gypsy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should find out who you really do love and for the guy that hits you i been through it before and its not a pretty site and my dad has always told me that i could do better that some guy thats hitting on you all the time!!!!!
2006-07-02 13:23:01 · answer #4 · answered by peaches 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anyone who hits you needs to go now before any more abuse is caused. anyone who hits you should not be your boyfriend he souds dangerous. watch the episode of degrassi with craig's abusive father and you'll know what i mean....(sorry, i'm only 13, that's as far as i can answer/relate)
2006-07-02 13:13:52 · answer #5 · answered by sofiaharriett 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do what you want - forget what anyone else feels - it's your life...
2006-07-02 13:11:15 · answer #6 · answered by martyn b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋