the fact is both can't accept any other women in my life rather then themselves .. my problem is .. i don't wanna leave anyone
2006-07-02 04:56:25 · 15 answers · asked by F T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
which one has the best income? pick her and tell the other one that unless she is willing to move in and make it a threesome it's over. if she is willing to move in rather than give you up, repeat this with the other one. Maybe you will get lucky and end up with them both.
2006-07-02 05:02:44 · answer #1 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For starters, you are not "in love" with both of them. Either 1) you are a player, 2) you are not ready to settle down into a committed relationship yet so you are dating - which is what you should tell both of them, or 3) each woman satisfies a different need for you and you are stuck. If it's the last choice, then you need to work on figuring out what you want in life and whether you are ready to make a committment or not to one of them. You just can't keep both because they are not going to let you anyway.
2006-07-02 05:05:31 · answer #2 · answered by lovemyolderman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you are "in love" or just in love with the fact that two women want you? You WILL Loose BOTH off them if they find out about each other.
It's hard to choose, so you would be smarter to tell each one that you are not ready to settle down yet because you are not sure.
If you are single, then they should understand that, but women have a tendency to want a committment and rush into things.. Single men should be allowed to "play the field", (but be careful, because single WOMEN have the same right).
2006-07-02 05:05:18 · answer #3 · answered by arvecar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do they know about each other? Well you better do something as soon as possible if they don't. You are in serious jeopardy of losing both of them no matter what you do, but odds are better if you let one of them go. It is not fair to any of you. You really need to make some kind of decision. You have to let one of them go or you will defintiely be without both of them and they both will end up hating you. You may not want to hurt either one of them, but the longer it goes on the more she will be hurt. They both love you and you love both of them, but you can't keep up this lie. Make a decision, and make it sooner rather than later.
2006-07-02 05:11:46 · answer #4 · answered by virtuouskelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a really tough problem to have and sounds like to me that just by the wording in your question both women have qualities that you like and both have things the other doesn't. i would definitely come to a decision quickly before you lose both although you may need to find a women who fulfills all your needs.
2006-07-02 05:02:59 · answer #5 · answered by skits 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first if its love then its love for only one and u have to figure out who that one is u cant have love in that way for 2 cause then its not true something my ex taught me when she cheated on me second dude your already playin the field keep going or drop out the game cause the game can gets u hurt if you play the game more remember the rules
2006-07-02 05:16:28 · answer #6 · answered by impalistic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
choose the best one cause it will get you into trouble. what if they find out about one another? you have to use your best judgment and pick the one that you relay and truly love and also you have to worry about diseases out there too so use safe sex. so hope you choose the one for you and not make the mistake of going out with the both of them cause it will spell trouble!!!
2006-07-02 05:03:55 · answer #7 · answered by wounderwoman44 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not being fair to either of them or yourself. Make a decision and get on with it. Good Luck.
2006-07-02 05:02:58 · answer #8 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a different country and marry both
2006-07-02 05:19:41 · answer #9 · answered by Alan Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love both, keep them separate, treat them equally, and give them your love equally.
2006-07-02 05:03:13 · answer #10 · answered by moonlight666 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋