what is the best desciription of love?

Question

whether love depends on our mind or not.does it depend on our pschology? If everything is ın our hand,Why are we unhappy?

Answer 1

massage before and after sex

Answer 2

This is from a plaque I have hanging on my wall at home:

Love never gives up, Love cares more for others than for self, Love doesn't want what it doesn't have, Love doesn't strut, Doesn't have a swelled head, Doesn't force itself on others, Isn't always "me first", Doesn't fly off the handle, Doesn't keep score of the sins of others, Doesn't revel when others grovel, Takes pleasure in the truth, Puts up with anything, Trusts God always, Always looks for the best, Never looks back but keeps going to the end, Love never fails~ 1 Corinthians 13

That says it all!

Answer 3

If you are making a difficult decision or want to share good news, etc., and the first person you think of is the one you love than that is true love mind, body & soul. You ask "why are we unhappy"? It's just human nature. We don't live in a Nirvana type world.

Answer 4

You know when your laying in bed holding someone and your arm your laying on (when your holding someone from behind them and your on your sides) just falls asleep and starts to hurt, but you stay that way anyhow to make sure the person your holding is comfortable? That's love. People feel the need to over think things, just be happy for the little things, then you'll find love and figure it out.

Answer 5

thats a tough one as can you really love like you should? most of us seem to be jelous and self centered that it gets in the way of love although love would be to wake up in the morning and know that there is a beautiful day ahead of you and to make it the best you ever could love is what you make of it you choose to be unhappy if one was to look for the positive that came with the negitive for the unhappiness then they wouldnt be so unhappy although most of us take this for granite and just looks at what is in front of us and not think about the choise we get as individuals LOVE IS GOD first and formost as without God there wouldnt be any feelings at all we have all these senses to help us through life and love is one of them although one can choise to hate just as much as to love

Answer 6

LOVE?
I just went to see Closer, with Jude Law, Julia Roberts, Natalie Portman and Clive Owen. What can I say? A redundant question because I will say so much about it now!
Love in the 21st Century, portrayed in this film, seems so difficult it’s not even worth trying. But let’s see what love really is first.
Love is: An emotion, warm liking or affection for a person or thing, sexual passion or relations, as defined in Hutchinson Encyclopedic Dictionary. But I don’t think that sums it up quite well enough. Love for me is complicated. Not in a bad way, but neither in a good way, just a rocky path you take knowing that the destination was worth it. The problem in today’s world is that it’s so much easier taking smoother roads that never lead you to your destination, instead they take you into dark corners of your self that you’d wish you’d never knew existed.
The destinations we pursue are all similar, or the same; security, companionship, understanding, trust, comprehension, satisfaction. The order might be different, but we all want the same things. So why can’t two people reach their destination together? Because we want to believe we want different things, because someone places more importance on one thing, which might be the least important for the other, like money, sex, attraction, etc. Because we might not be ready to reach the destination just yet, or are afraid it’s not where we wanted to go, or we’re afraid of really getting to where we want to go. We procrastinate, we take detours to distract ourselves, but sooner or later we’ll want to reach it and that’s when we’ll never find the right path. We’ve zigzagged our way so much that now we’re lost and just returning to familiar spots to reassure ourselves we’re still searching.
You meet someone; you feel at ease, you feel complete, then you get cold feet, you think you don’t deserve them, that you’re not ready to walk that path just yet, that they’re walking too fast, too slow, or making too many stops. We create scenes, obstacles to see if that other half is as willing to take the journey. We take breaks, rest stops to make sure we really want to go there. Or we run, holding hands, as fast as we can with blinkers on so no distraction can stop us, and we reach an oasis that’s similar to what we’ve been searching but are unsure whether it’s the right place, so just in case we’ll keep going.
Fear, that’s what it boils down to. Fear of loving too much, too little, of not loving properly, of not loving how the other wants to be loved, of loving for the wrong reasons, or loving the wrong things about someone. Like that age-old concept of loving the quirks that irritate us; the snoring, the tics, the funny accent, or the way they brush their hair.
But what about all those people who are still together after 20, 30, and 40 years or more? Commitment. Facing their fears. Working everyday to make it work. They don’t give up, nor hide, nor look for smoother paths. They know where they are, why they are there, and what they have to do to stay there. They trust, communicate, accept, compromise, and always struggle to make it through. They should be our guides, instead we look down on them for accepting all the difficulties we saw them fight over while we were growing up, and we demand ourselves to be better than them, but we’re really just ignoring reality.

I wrote that before I became a single father.
I also wrote much more about love and happiness on my blog, check it out if you like.

Answer 7

u know what i really feel is that love is that feeling which makes a person so good to the world around him. Love can be all about passion or it can also be all about the emotion. u r right it depends upon the psychology of a person. it can be all about giving or taking. But if ur really in love it is really one of the purest feelings of the world. I guess a person would really do anything and sacrifice anything 4 his true love............ thats love..........true love..

Answer 8

love is a decision. not just a feeling. the feelings are great...but the decision is what keeps you together. also for a clear view of what love is check out 1 Corinthians 13.

Answer 9

Love is Like a Hole , when man goes inside never comes out.

Answer 10

1 Corinthians 13. What is LOVE? just to say a few. LOVE IS KIND, NOT JEALOUS,BELIEVES ALL THINGS, NOT RESENTFUL,HOPES ALL THING,BEARS ALL THINGSAND IMPORTANT PATIENT. Even more, just take the time out and read the bible because the bible believe it or not has alot of answers to how your feeling. PEACE&BLESSINGS.

Answer 11

you shoud try talking or going out on a romantic date, go one night without sex see if it helps to just cuddle