This guy I was seeing for a year just suddenly stopped talking to me. I called him once since this happened to see what was up and he was rude to me. No explanation at all. I waited about a month, figuring he'll call me if he wants to talk. No call. I messaged him yesterday asking if we could still be friends, no response. What do you think happened?
2006-07-02 04:36:09 · 12 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We were getting pretty serious right before this happened too. He was thinking about moving in with me.
2006-07-02 04:37:17 · update #1
He might find someone... move on and if he's back, tell him you're over him already cos he dissapeared. Don't waste your time on someone who's unclear like that. You deserve someone better.
2006-07-02 04:41:42 · answer #1 · answered by meetha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He got cold feet. This happens right before people get 'serious' and do something like move in together. He is worried and afraid of the way things will change and what will happen in the future.
As he won't talk to you at all, it does sound like he has decided to break it off for good and move on...
2006-07-02 11:42:42 · answer #2 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have been dumped...and in the worst possible way...By a coward...You would think a year of being intimate with someone would warrant an explanation at least...Get angry...Throw a few things around...cut up some pics...Listen to a few songs and cry your eyes out...and move on....Its a big world and there are plenty of men out there...Men who have more respect for themselves and for women...
2006-07-02 11:48:23 · answer #3 · answered by Wicked_One 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, boys are not courageous when it comes to serious relationship. They act as if they are very obedient sons to their parents. No individuality. Hypocritical in nature. This may be this fellow's problem. His parents might have searched for another girl for marriage and hence, he is not interested in you. A cowardly act.
2006-07-02 11:51:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He decided you weren't "the one," but he doesn't want to "hurt" you by telling you so. In reality, he's afraid to tell you because he doesn't want to accept responsibility for ending the relationship and he doesn't want to deal with your reaction. This is how they are, unfortunately. You're better off finding this out before you developed too much of an emotional committment to him. You are way better off without this guy because he's too out of tune with his emotional self.
2006-07-02 11:42:58 · answer #5 · answered by lovemyolderman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it was getting too serious, and he doesnt know how to tell you that perhaps he's changed his mind about living together. That could be a good thing. Better now, then later.
2006-07-02 11:40:32 · answer #6 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sucks but we've all been there. Easy to say this, but just move on. Get your friends to hook you up with someone.
2006-07-02 11:41:08 · answer #7 · answered by BishopKlaw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either he saw you or someone who looked like you doing somethng he didn't like seeing, or one of his friends fed him some sh*t about you.
get blunt with him and ask him what's going on in his head. don't insult him until you find out what the misunderstanding is all about.
2006-07-02 11:43:12 · answer #8 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably started seeing someone else? Or some deep trauma or something. Either way, I'm sorry for you.
2006-07-02 11:39:42 · answer #9 · answered by pieninja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have been dumped sorry but that is it plain truth. move on there are better than him out there!
2006-07-02 11:41:25 · answer #10 · answered by matt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋