My story's sad. Me and Daniel. we love each other so much to the point that we're scared to say it to each other cuz we know we cant be together. we talked about the whole religion thing he's protestant and im a muslim...I'm never converting and in my religion that's not a choice and i wouldn't want to but even though he tells me he's not religious he tells me he can't convert..We need to leave each other cuz we know we cant be together but everytime we try to leave we cant .. love does crazy things to u...when im with him i do wutever and i forget we're different.i forget that its wrong to kiss him and i forget the whole world cuz i want to...i need advice bad....i love him ..love is a big word...and we need each other so bad...
2006-07-02 04:03:08 · 15 answers · asked by Noura 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
SALAAM, I AM MUSLIM, and You need to Listen to me as your Sister....You need to let that man go. DONT LISTEN TO ALL THESE UNBELIEVERS GIVING YOU ADVISE AND TELLING YOU TO STAY WITH HIM!!!
Allah is testing you. Sister, you are slipping more and more each day. First you kiss him, tommorrow you will do the worst--fornication. DONT DO IT. LET HIM GO. CHANGE YOUR PHONE NUMBER... That man can never truly love you--because he doesn't even love Allah--and Allah is His Creator. That man doesn't fast, he doesnt believe in Allah, he doesn't make "astinga" & clean himself after using the bathroom, and he probabay eats pork, and he's probably had sex with alot of other girls before he met you..... I know its hard to be a Muslim at times, and we all make mistakes so don't feel bad--but if you stay with that man--you will miss out on being with a good Muslim man. LET HIM GO..ALLAH WILL REWARD YOU FOR DOING THE RIGHT THING...
2006-07-02 07:57:27 · answer #1 · answered by Plus-Sized &Proud 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Why is it Necessary to Convert ? ... If we do not learn to Respect Each others religion within a family... How will we learn to respect each others Religion in the Society ??
Acceptance of Religion should be voluntary ... People have different mentality and God has given Different Ways ...
But if you do not have that much faith in God then my advice is not to marry him. The Excitement of Youth would eventually Die away. Family has the main responsibility to Raise Good God Conscious Children.
If you are sure you will face problem later on, then better don't take that risk. because you will be ruining your Life as well as your Partners as well as your Children ...
You don't have only your Youth to live ... You have also Middle Age and Old Age... and that's a very long period.....
And Purpose of Marriage is to Vow not to separate under any circumstances....
2006-07-02 11:23:38 · answer #2 · answered by Parsu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is ok 2 love a christian boy.U can't convert coz u'll get a death penality,anyway if marriage does happen between the 2 of u ,then u can still remain a muslim coz u van't convert and he can remain a christian 2(no problem).I have heard of lot of muslim women marrying a hindu or christian ,the only thing is that both of u have 2 decide what religion u want ur children 2 follow.IF u marry a christian boy ,then lucky for u coz at least in Bible it is not written that a man is allowed 2 beat his wife.U'll get lots of equal rights as a woman believe me u'll b treated well .Perhaps u should check this site ,it'll help u.http://www.FaithFreedom.org__________________
2006-07-02 11:17:18 · answer #3 · answered by michele_miss2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a fatwa told by a Sudaneese scholar (Turabi) that allows muslim women to marry non-muslim men. However, there is a debate on this Fatwa and not everyone has accepted it. You can find some of the debate in this website:
http://www.alarabiya.net/Articles/2006/05/22/23957.htm
It is up to you to use your brain and judge whther you can take such a Fatwwa or not.
2006-07-02 11:09:10 · answer #4 · answered by peace_lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either of u have to convert thats all thats there is to it.. look at this point it may seem all hunky-dory but later on the problems set in.. anyway, if u were dating him in the first place it doesnt seem like ur a muslim so go on and do whatever u like cause it seems like uve already broken the rules of the religion so why not do it now(my opinion not to be taken to heart)
2006-07-02 11:08:18 · answer #5 · answered by kelly_o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is sad islam does not allow you to mary out side your faith. the men can and do I was married to a muslim he said it did not matter I was christian and the quran even says the men can marry christians and jews but the women can not. to me that does not seem right ( fair ) any way after I was with my husband I tryed to learn about islam he seemed unable to help me but was sure I would convert I left him or rather he devorced me becouse I would no longer suport him.
2006-07-02 11:12:21 · answer #6 · answered by Mim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once again religion comes to the rescue...yeah leave him for a muslim man so you can be forced to do things that you dont want and be miserable...at least youll be true to your faith!! cmon if you found someone that makes you so happy dont let stupid religion get in the way...isnt the purpose of religion supposed to be happiness?
2006-07-02 11:14:34 · answer #7 · answered by knowitall 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unequally Yoked -
2 Cor.6:14 Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?
Pat (ndbpsa)
2006-07-02 18:55:39 · answer #8 · answered by BibleProphecyOnTheWeb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i relize its ur religion and all
but if u love him soooooooooooooooooooo much
then it shouldnt matter!
if u HAVE to give up now
ur gunna think about it in 40-60 yrs
and ull have missed out on love!
i noe its tough
but this may be one of the times where u have to ignore ur rules...
break the rules....
yea....
2006-07-02 11:10:25 · answer #9 · answered by Tardcakemcrlover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay with him if he is the one you will be with forever. if you truly love each other than nothing should get in your way, even your religion. if let laws and rules decide for you then you may never be truly happy. good luck!!
2006-07-02 11:08:43 · answer #10 · answered by slugworm88 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋