i'm going to italy next week to be bridesmaid at my boyfriends sisters wedding,my boyfriend is best man.so far we've spent around £3000 on the holiday(4 star hotel etc.)in total it'll be about £5000.do we really need to buy a gift?it's not that we don't love them,or that we are cheap but haven't we spent enough?
2006-07-02 02:54:55 · 16 answers · asked by missy k 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I'd get them a small token gift. Like a framed picture of them on there weddng day.
That is what I done when I went to St Lucia for my brothers wedding.
2006-07-02 03:28:03 · answer #1 · answered by Tara 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i would probibly find something that they would like an maybe cherish, at the same time not have to spend much, even a gag gift that all could have fun with, an they would think of u later in the years on down the line... it might also help relax them cause of all the pressure of all the planning an running around it takes for a wedding... good luck an have fun there..
2006-07-02 03:05:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Homemade gifts take so much more time so I prefer to make them myself because then the person who you made it for knows that it was for them. Store bought gifts are great too but just knowing someone took that extra time to make something goes a long way.
2016-03-27 01:05:22 · answer #3 · answered by Flor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My brother got married this year and it cost nearly $2000 for me to fly my family to attend the wedding and I had to rent my own tux. I still gave them whatever money I had left as a gift. Granted it was my bro but still you should get them something. It's more of a symbol of your support for their marriage than it is about gift giving.
2006-07-02 02:59:24 · answer #4 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You need to get them a gift. Something small that won't break the bank would be perfect. They'll really appreciate the gesture. It is the classy thing to do.
2006-07-03 10:06:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you hane spent an enormous amount on this wedding so what a few more pounds, just give a small gift it doesnt have to be expensive its the thought that counts but i really think that you should
2006-07-02 09:02:13 · answer #6 · answered by jojo78 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes even if its something small you are still getting a good trip out of the money you have spent.
2006-07-04 02:10:52 · answer #7 · answered by niceaverage_girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can afford a gift honey, buy one. How would you feel if at your wedding no one brought a gift for the same reason? Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.
2006-07-02 09:39:51 · answer #8 · answered by Princess Lueji 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you ahve spent enough but that doesnt mean you cant get them a gift, something small and inexpensive but worthy will do the trick.. maybe something sentimental.
2006-07-02 08:37:08 · answer #9 · answered by Seductress 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get them sort of a small gift thats not expensive but came from your heart.
2006-07-02 03:09:54 · answer #10 · answered by Lauren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋