The girl I like (I really really like her) is going out with one of her old boyfriends. She knows I like her, and has known. When she found out she didn't say anything about it (I wrote her a note explaining), but she seemed to like me too; she seemed happy when I called her, we talked about anything and everything (except my feelings for her), when I complemented her she looked down, blushed and looked away and then denied the complement, etc.
We went to play golf with my brother and grandfather (she wanted to learn, so I took her) and she said she had fun. Several days later she mentioned a guy, and when I questioned who he was, she said he was her boyfriend. From then on, I called her once more, and she seemed uncomfortable. I haven't accually seen her lately, so no news there.
Anyway, what should I do? What do you think is going on? No Bullsh!t answers, please, only serious answers.
2006-07-02 01:10:46 · 9 answers · asked by J. Ripley 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you really want her.ignore her.I could explain this some much more but would rather not suffer the wrath of women.Just do it and you will see.
2006-07-02 01:16:35 · answer #1 · answered by Axewielderx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you have mentioned does not reflect your true emotions!! Probably her boyfriend( current) gives much more than these.There is no fun in pressurizing someone to be yours if the other person doesnot want it!!
She may like a lot of people and you are just one whom she tolerated so far. Drop the subject and look for greener pastures!!
2006-07-02 08:15:50 · answer #2 · answered by THE WORRIER 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much as it hurts and stings, you already know the answer. You're not her type. Although she enjoys talking with you and blushes at your compliments, it may simply mean she's shy and she just enjoys talking with you. That's ALL she needs from you. Don't be discouraged, for you'll find the right girl for you and YOU alone. Good luck and best wishes.
2006-07-02 08:18:48 · answer #3 · answered by danielle s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know the answer, you just don't want to ask the question. You have to put all B.S. aside and outright ask her if she wants to be your girl. BUT YOU already know the answer. Is this enough NO BULLS*IT for you? Oh if you need it in plainer terms. SHE isn't interested in YOU as a BOYFRIEND.
2006-07-02 08:15:12 · answer #4 · answered by GRUMPY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can't give myself the right to judge someone i don't know..but anyone who reads your words,the first thing that'll jump into his mind is that she was just playing around and not serious enough..but i can also say that she might have been unsure about her feelings to you,the best thing is to confront her,ask her and she must have some kind of explanation...don't spend your life asking yourself why..that'll steal your days like in the sand clock.
2006-07-02 08:19:22 · answer #5 · answered by rubi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly,
I think she is just using you as a backup plan..
But you can still win this.. Talk to her.. talk to her even more not as a stalker type.. Just be there for her.. cus' one day that other muthaf$%ka is gonna screw up.
OK
2006-07-02 08:16:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well better find out if she wants to date you or if she even had someone else, maybe she doesn't have anyone else. step back and take a look and see whats going on
2006-07-02 08:14:22 · answer #7 · answered by rich_below 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No bull....MOVE ON. There are too many women in this world for you too keep going after one who's heart isnt in it.
2006-07-02 08:14:59 · answer #8 · answered by opjames 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and be there for her, but mention your feelings for her in a way that you can be sure what hers are to you.
just dont force her to answer, bcoz it may be that she is unsure, and by you pushing her you'll drive her away.
2006-07-02 08:13:12 · answer #9 · answered by .*.Trouble.*. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋