I'm a relatively small girl; I'm 4'11" and I weigh about 110 lbs., but I am very, very top heavy. I just graduated to a 34 DD cup. Because my body is not that big, my clothes are typically smaller and I have to make adjustments to my wardrobe to ensure that my cleavage is not revealed. What I want to know, is if when a guy notices that a girl has revealed cleavage does he lose respect for her? I don't appreciate showing more skin than is appropriate, but I find it difficult to wear clothing appropriate for my age and maintain a chaste appearance. Do I look slutty or should I not be so concerned with such matters?
2006-07-02 01:04:56 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I'm just eighteen on the ninth, so age appropriate clothing is usually more scarcely present. Wearing clothing that covers me properly tends to detract from my youthful projection.
2006-07-02 01:25:14 · update #1
It's not that I'm not proportioned. I'm not very wide up top or anywhere else. I stick out in the butt department as well as in the boob department but my hips and chest aren't extremely wide. I've got too much curvage for a short little thing like me.
2006-07-02 01:51:49 · update #2
dont be so hard on urself girl !
have some self respect...be confident.
here's what u can do...
1.wear v shaped neck tees.
2. wear a 'proper' bra that fits ur body type .(its really vital cuz it gives the bust a lift, giving an illusion of a longer waist)
3. include more dresses that have deeper necks. (i know that sound slutty..but u dont hav to go too deep. neck that's just above the clevage actually takes the attention away from the heaviness of the bust. its a technical fashion illusion used by women all around the globe.
4. if u too shy for going bare necked with such a dress, put on some nice woven scarves or ornaments to team with it.
all the best !
2006-07-02 02:08:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 11⤊ 2⤋
Well. From a male point of view you should be proud that you are well endowed. Definitely I will not like my girl friend or my sister to reveal their cleavage but I am not going to loose respect of a girl if she shows her cleavage but definitely look at the cleavage for more than a second.
2006-07-02 01:16:02 · answer #2 · answered by krish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand what you mean.
When your breasts are big it's hard to find clothes that are tasteful and don't make you feel for lack of a better way of saying it, cheap or slutty.
But it's your breasts and you should wear what you want.
People who matter know that your breast size is obviously out of control, and I doubt that your friends and family would think you were being slutty if you showed a little bit of cleavage.
2006-07-02 01:11:33 · answer #3 · answered by lovely 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If its out of your control, its not such a turn off (just don't abuse the power you have over men). However, girls that get breast implants bother me, because I'm an athletic guy and I love my girlfriends to go running with me...I don't want them to get hurt and stretch themselves out. So, obviously I prefer small boobs in a relationship, but I've still got this guyish instinct that tells me I love them and want to stare at them (one thing about being a guy you just can't change LOL)
2006-07-02 01:11:42 · answer #4 · answered by Pawl M Davis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're breasts are big and a little cleavage is shown, it does not make you look like a sl ut. It's when 80 or 90 percent is visible when you're showing too much. Remember, at your age, a little cleavage is nothing unusual.
2006-07-02 03:47:23 · answer #5 · answered by x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like to see a little bit of cleavage, but not so much that I can't help but stare at a ladies boobs while I'm trying to talk to her face.
2006-07-02 02:17:08 · answer #6 · answered by lixlabium 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't put yourself down because of your large breasts. Present yourself as just another young sexy woman with a normal life. Let your looks judge how you are treated in this rapidly-changing world. Consider yourself as a woman who yearns for respect from your peers, no matter what your shortcomings are.
2006-07-02 05:47:40 · answer #7 · answered by brian 2010 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Willys cynical thought for the day;
Cleavage: Is something you can look down on and approve of at the same freaking time!
http://www.total-knowledge.com/~willyblues/
2006-07-02 02:22:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your attitude is the key.
If you wish to look presentable you know how to dress.
I like the look of a top heavy girl.
I hope that you will find your true love.
2006-07-02 01:09:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lack of self confidence=turn off
anyone who will just go after you because of how you look is not the guy for you...as simple as that...dress how you feel comfortable dont worry about what guys think...trust me if you dress all revealing and a guy is attracted to you because of that the second you guys start to pursue something he will have you cover up
dress comfortable...be confident
2006-07-02 01:11:47 · answer #10 · answered by Gus 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋