My fiance wants to have a threesome with another girl and he actually found one. I agreed to it in the beginning and it sounds like fun, but now I am asking him a lot of questions on how he will feel. Guys don't talk about their feelings too much do they?LOL He thinks that I am reading too much into the situation. I just don't want any grief afterwards...am I crazy?
2006-07-02 00:55:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No we don't talk about that much
Go ahead and try it you may find another girl's **** sexy
It will spice up your relationship
No you are not reading to much into it
You are not crazy
He will feel happy, excited, and horny at the same time
:-) Your welcome.
2006-07-02 01:13:42 · answer #1 · answered by J. Ripley 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd hazard a guess that if you have a threesome he will not be your fiancee for very long. Some people can handle it, but most can't. I had one once, but it sure wasn't with a girlfriend let alone someone I was going to marry. Do you really want to see the man you love having sex with someone else in front of you? It's not something you will ever forget. Why aren't you enough for him? You sound like you might enjoy it, and you might, but I would say you should have done it before you were thinking about getting married.
2006-07-02 08:05:13 · answer #2 · answered by Spillski 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not crazy and to be honest, I wouldn't do it unless you were absolutely certain that your relationship could handle the problems that come along with a threesome.
I've done it twice in my life and in one I was not so attached to the person that I didn't mind the break that came afterwords. The other one, the chick and I were friends, and it was her boyfriend. It was okay and our friendship lasted past it. She believed that men were there for a good time and so did I. The guy was nothing special for both us.
However, with a family member of mine, the threesome brought out some issues that were unresolved or not easily apparent in the beginning and it ended their relationship shortly afterwords.
2006-07-02 08:00:27 · answer #3 · answered by shawonda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First
I am a guy and have no problem expressing my feelings.
Second
I have been involved in a three sum on two occasions. Once was when I was on vacation with two women I had met when I was out and it was great. The second involved my wife, her incredibly hot friend and and afternoon of alcohol. This one was OK but there was some awkwardness down. My suggestion is unless you are in I whole heatedly don't do it. And don't do it with someone the two of you are friends with unless you are ready to deal with what happens afterward
2006-07-02 08:09:12 · answer #4 · answered by Nicholas R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Introducing a relationship to poligamy is frought with problems including trust, self esteem, etc. You risk eroding the fundemental principles of the relationship itself. Some people can make an open lifestyle work for their relationship. However, both people have to be brought into it strongly and both people have to be secure in their love, trust and sexuality.
2006-07-02 08:01:23 · answer #5 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. It just isn't healthy for any of you. If you think you have questions about it now, you will regret it dearly if you do it. There is a lot of negativity that is transferred to you once you do something like that.
No, you are not crazy. But promise me you won't do it, ok?
2006-07-02 08:02:05 · answer #6 · answered by ♣Tascalcoán♣ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it, u need to ask yourself y would he want another girl when he has u? thats how u know
2006-07-02 08:01:42 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Sexy D♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do it... This type of behavior is not good for your relationship. If he can't be with JUST YOU, dump him
2006-07-02 07:59:31 · answer #8 · answered by scrambledmolecues 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you are
2006-07-02 07:57:57 · answer #9 · answered by luvdoctor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋