2006-07-01 23:40:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Lonliness is miserable, but it's better than having your heart broken repeatedly.
2006-07-01 23:43:58 · answer #1 · answered by margarita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are very wrong. There are many pure friendships in this world - but they take a lot of work to develop, and some people just don't have the time, nor patience.
It is not good to be lonely - to be a loner - it won't make you happy if you prefer to be with people. Besides, some people can still take advantage of you even if you are a loner.
What you should do is to seek out those who would not take advantage of you - it may be a long, difficult search, but there truly are good and honest people out there.
Just like many frogs are kissed before the true prince or princess is found, one has to deal with many people before true, honest friends are found - but truly, the search is worth it.
Don't give up too easily and your search will one day be rewarded.
2006-07-02 06:46:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, i've ever thought that way before. But loneliness isn't good at all. I finally found someone I can regard as a real friends, someone who stays beside u in ur ups and downs. And since that day, i never thinks that there's no pure friendship in this world. It just depends on what you're thinking, May be there's day when we think no one cares for us. But, you'll find out although you're friends are not around, we are always in their heart. And they pray for our best.
2006-07-02 07:00:33 · answer #3 · answered by t0bl3rone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not sure that who is true and who is pure but it don't mean that you start to be lonely. This world is made of selfishness. This world cann't survive without selfishness. Think if there are only good and love. Then, there is no meaning of life. This life is full of difficulty. But it dosen't mean we should go to black room and hide ourselves. Even in your heart selfishness is there. That's why nobody in this world have selfishlessness. So, we should be in group which give the sign of original human beings.
2006-07-02 06:59:02 · answer #4 · answered by Sum 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a sad way to look at life, we all need each other that's why we are intelligent beings not to go it alone but to cooperate and make this world a more comfortable productive place with and for each other just chose people who love you that you want to do for and that they also want to give back sounds like you may have just made some bad choices there are wonderful friends and lovers out there you just need to find them .
2006-07-02 06:58:17 · answer #5 · answered by jedjgri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who said to you that in this world there is no pure friendship? i think you dont trust yourself.who dont trust himself they cant trust others. in every relationship the faith is the main key. so 2 b lonley is not a good idea try to keep faith on others.
2006-07-02 06:53:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not good...
Dude cheer up...
There's allot of people in the world that can be one of your friends...
Real Friends...
It is not good to be lonely just because you are fail to have one that cannot attend every bit of characteristics you want them to have...
Even at first when God created the World He gave a Girl to His Son Adam just to have companion in this life...
In this time of your life you already have one...
Congratulations...
Good Luck and have a great answer seeker...
2006-07-02 06:49:31 · answer #7 · answered by POB A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your looking into it to deep...
if you want to put your trust in someone or have someone who doesn't want something from you, join the Army, get deployed to Iraq or Afghan, I promise you will get to see what trust is...
Not everyone wants something for you out of a friendship. If it seems like that you need to find a new group of friends!
2006-07-02 06:45:38 · answer #8 · answered by Jessie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Occassionally you meet friends who don't want to take advantage of you, but i agree most people do.
Maybe its better to think of them as mutual relationships, where you do things for them and then they do things for you in return - they might need you and take advantage of you but then when you need them hopefully they'll return the favour
2006-07-02 06:53:30 · answer #9 · answered by monkeynuts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is real friendship ... trust me!!! There are people who don´t just want to take advantage of you!!
2006-07-02 06:46:20 · answer #10 · answered by Huppyfluppy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋