she is kinda afrain of sex she was even afraid to let me kiss her on the cheek. but i dont wanna rush her but i also dont wanna feellike im going to slow and have her leave me for that. im not a mind reader.
2006-07-01 22:48:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
NO. Sounds like she's NOT ready.
And by law - NO means NO. Otherwise, jail.
2006-07-01 22:54:37 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wants to take things slowly I doubt that she will run off because you are too slow!!! Try talking to her and finding out what makes her tick - she could be just a little old fashioned or has strong family values - sex is not the only thing in a relationship you know - why not enjoy each others company and do fun things together. You will build up her trust and sense of security and she will talk more freely to you - however dont take advantage her or misuse her trust
2006-07-02 05:58:47 · answer #2 · answered by PERCY L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you really want to have sex with your girlfriend, then the best that you can do is talk to her about it. But then again, you must respect her wishes. If she does not feel comfortable doing something then you should not pressure her into doing it. It will only cause more problems in the relationship then there are already is.
2006-07-02 13:44:50 · answer #3 · answered by spyder90tishuez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey dude, be a nice guy and dont force your girl! If you do than THAT would make her runaway, trust me. If you respect her decission it only shows that you're a gentleman and not desparate for sex, you are willing to slow down for her just because you really care and u r willing to wait til she's ready. that would make you a very very sweet boyfriend. So let her take her time. Goodluck with that.
2006-07-02 06:05:46 · answer #4 · answered by Nailhead_pixie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really do like this girl then you should respect her wishes & just be patient & wait for her to let you know when she is ready, as she obviously won't drop you for being too slow. So be supportive & the wait will be worth it.
2006-07-02 06:19:19 · answer #5 · answered by cotts 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has intamacy issues, forcing sex will only make that worse. Why don't you slow down and get to know her better. I doubt she'll leave you for respecting her by slowing down, since it seems to be what she wants anyway.
2006-07-02 05:59:33 · answer #6 · answered by help_im_in_orbit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. 2 b a good bfriend u should understand her problems and let it go easy. Hug her and ask her whether u could kiss her somewhere else. Go slowly on her.
2006-07-02 06:00:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no she will get soooo mad if u continually ask, but if ur ready and shes not u mite wanna dump her if u cant even kiss her ur desision
2006-07-03 19:42:48 · answer #8 · answered by 2hott4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's not ready, let her be until she is because if she regrets it, it can really hurt your relationship.
2006-07-02 20:09:34 · answer #9 · answered by music123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET over IT!
2006-07-02 06:15:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋