I'm going out with this fantastic guy and unfortunately my friends don't like him. This is really hard to handle especially when you have to spilt your time up just for your friends and then for him instead of all four of us spending time together. It's surprising how hard it is to not have them get along with each other... and for some reason I feel torn, even though none of them are making me choose sides. Some advice would be greatly appreciated and would help with ease the frustration. thanx.
2006-07-01 22:35:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If they don't like him, that's their problem! follow your heart, do what you are happy with. don't do what your friends say you should. i think that they a just jealous because you've go a great guy.
2006-07-01 22:45:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your friends why they don't like him and make sure that those reasons are not important to your relationship, they could just be worried about you being in a relationship and care about you and it may be not even him just the fact that they think no one would be good for you. Admittedly it would be nice if you could hang out with all of them, but remember there would be times you want to hang out with just your friends and now you don't have to specifically worry about telling your boyfriend that you just want to hang out with them
2006-07-02 05:41:50 · answer #2 · answered by Kirsty J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that you should try to understand why your friends dont like him and try reason with them about giving him a chance cuz if they just give him a chance they might change their minds about him hope this helps good luck
2006-07-02 05:41:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont u divide your time initially? then talk good about the one (not always) in front of the other....slowly they will learn to like each other
2006-07-02 05:37:59 · answer #4 · answered by midas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple BOB buds over b@stards for girls
or for guys buds over B**chs
2006-07-02 06:01:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know that if u really like the guy & he like u so u have to do only one think just ignore your other frinds
thats it
2006-07-02 06:00:16 · answer #6 · answered by PM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your friends cannot accept the man you love, then they arent being very good friends at all.
2006-07-02 05:38:35 · answer #7 · answered by DL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your friends why don't they like him, maybe they are jealous
2006-07-02 05:48:44 · answer #8 · answered by Giggles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are going out with him not your friends tell them to butt out of your life on this matter. my opion?
2006-07-02 05:38:05 · answer #9 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋