i love a boy and he too loves me vwry deeply he wants to marry me but after he and i finish my studies .....but i am afraid coz i know my parents are never gaing to allow me for love marragie .....but i cant live him nor my parents....how can i explain them....many a times i feel like making a sucide ....many i times i start crying nytiime without a reason.....i hurt myself with a blade a knife or a broken mirror.....i m too much sad for all this and cant help myself plsssssssssssss help.......me....
2006-07-01 22:33:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ok i think ur indian..... dont worry dear god is great he will do all think for our good side
1st remove the one thing from ur mind that to hurt or self or kill our self is not the solution but it creat more problem for u n ur family,,, imagine if u going to do sucide what will happned on ur family?????
u have to be stong on ur desision to merry with ur bf...
tell ur mom about this but not now when ur studies on ending so before 2-3 month of ending u can ask ur mom n explain all situation,,,, god creat mom with great love then slowly go to father n also request him if then dont ready then only give them warning for sucide but never do it cause warning only get work....
if u do suside then u only only killing ur self but u killing ur love, u killing ur family.... instet of sucide u can run away for ur home if u not worry about ur family,,, cause hurting by run away from home is better then hurting by ur suside.....
take care i wish n pray god about u get ur love soon
God is great" some one some where is made for u"
2006-07-01 22:58:10 · answer #1 · answered by cold_dur 2 · 4⤊ 2⤋
here's how i would handle it, i would talk to my family and tell them that I'm leaving and starting a family of my own, and if they gave me any problems i would just say, look you can stand by my decision or never see any grand kids or be a part of the family that I'm starting, most family's would chose to let it go and let you have your way, they just wouldn't be happy about it but it's not about there happiness it's about yours. Look when it comes to family obligations, your need to realize that you are your own person and that the choices you make will start you on a new path and a new life and that isn't always a bad thing, so cheer up and just try and remember to speak to them about it and if they say no, just leave then run away and get married and start your own family. but that just how i would handle the situation if this isn't what your after don't take my advice, and good luck and hope it works out the way you wont.
2006-07-02 00:09:52 · answer #2 · answered by Funny Shy Guy :) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to either choose the boy or choose your parents. I think if you make the choice once and for all, you will no longer want to hurt yourself. Choose the one that will make YOU happy. If it is love for the boy, you will have to disappoint your parents. If it is love for your parents, you will have to disappoint the boy. Only YOU know what is more important to your happiness. Good luck to you.
2006-07-01 23:27:41 · answer #3 · answered by 420Linda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must face your boyfriend with the truth , and if he love you , he will find any slove for these problem , and I suport you by my heart.
2006-07-01 22:45:09 · answer #4 · answered by X UNI X 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i felt the same many years ago. today when i look back i realised how stupid i was. we should enjoy life not hurting ourselves
2006-07-01 22:40:26 · answer #5 · answered by romanian babe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋