how to make friends and influence people in US?

Question

i am from india, young and bright, 24 male, got my higher education in us and have a good job in chandler, AZ. but i am very lonely and have no friends and gets into depression most of the times. WHY?
1. i dont smell like curry
2. i drink like a fish socially
3. i smoke like a chimney like an american hippy
4. i dont look like an ugly MF
5. i have got good education
6. i speak english very well
7. i am very expressive
8. i go out and hike
9. i can go to strip clubs
10. i like heavy metal music
11. i am very flexible personality
and probably just like any other 24 yr old. But when i look into people eyes, it looks like they just hate me, WHY? am i not human being? its not only americans, even indians in US don't talk to me pretty well. what is the reason. i am going insane............dont i deserve to have a good friend or perhaps if i am fortunate enough to reach the next stage and have a girl friend? does any god damn person on this planet have an answer for my situation

Answer 1

Drinking and smoking are not particularly attractive features, FYI.

Don't assume people hate you. You may be interpreting this based on your own feelings, then overcompensating and turning people off.

Try getting involved w/ groups that share your interests. A soccer, volleyball or basketball league for examples.

Try a church. (Personal suggestion, stay away from Mormon)

Do you have roommates? That's a good way to meet people who can become your friends, plus you can meet their friends.

Women are attracted to confident men. Having friends and liking yourself will open up opportunities for a girlfriend.