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How do I know that I am ready to have sex for the first time?

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2006-07-01 21:32:41 · 11 answers · asked by Lil Crazy 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Adolescent

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Some say, "You just know". You really have to trust that person, love them. It really depends on how old your are, if you are 14-16, like I am....Then it might not be the best thing for you, but if you decide to go against that, then please use a condom. You know your ready, when everything he does to your feels right, and you don't feel guilty. You have to not be able to worry that someone could walk in on you, and you have to be 100% willing. If your not ready, then NEVER push yourself. Is their really a point to making your self do something? If he really loves you, then he wouldn't make you uncomfortable and ask for sex all the time. Or pressure you would he.

2006-07-01 21:42:01 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki 1 · 1 0

when you dont have to ask people like us! You are young and it is a big step but dont take it lightly - people around you i.e at school etc. will make light of it and say that they have all done it - dont believe them - apart from a few - most are just as concerned about it as you are. Dont do it just because you are under pressure from peers or your boyfriend threatens to 'drop you' if you dont - Only give yourself to someone if you feel it is the right thing to do and you have been going out with this person for awhile and you feel it is important for you to share the ultimate gift of intermacy and make sure you are prepared with appropriate birth control - you know contraception

2006-07-01 23:07:51 · answer #2 · answered by PERCY L 2 · 0 0

I waited until I was ninteen. After my first sexual experience, I immediately got on birth control (Although I was too late and experienced a miscarriage).


When you are ready, you will just know. My theory is, "When it happens, it happens. As long as you're not pressured by either side, and it happens naturally, you're ready."

2006-07-01 21:39:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

When you know the person well enough to understand he doesn't have diseases.
When you do good for yourself.
When the time and place is right.

2006-07-01 21:39:16 · answer #4 · answered by goldylocks11 3 · 0 0

it depends on how mature you can be about the situation and it depends on the signs that your body sends you if you're ready then you're heart will tell you and your body will tell you but if you're not then you'll find yourself arguing with yourself heart over body

2006-07-01 21:42:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

wait until you are at least 18 on birth control and try to be in love

2006-07-01 21:37:02 · answer #6 · answered by tracy 3 · 0 0

you just know, no one on the internet or anywhere can actually tell you how you feel. I guess it's in your head, it's your body, but choose carefully so you don't regret it. But you know you have to use protection.

2006-07-01 21:38:28 · answer #7 · answered by ::.Mz.Allure.:: 2 · 0 0

married or at least serios relationship in ur 20s.

2006-07-02 01:31:23 · answer #8 · answered by lexa (: 4 · 0 0

come to my house, and i'll let you know.. jk, depends on maturity, and your body.... 18 is probably the best age though..

2006-07-01 21:39:05 · answer #9 · answered by onetomgreenshowfan 3 · 0 0

u will ur self ask ur boyfriendto do sex

2006-07-01 21:53:17 · answer #10 · answered by manz_1610 2 · 0 0

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