I was dumped by the women I thought I would be with for the rest of my life. I screwed up big time. I pushed "things" to happen before they should have. I don't know what to do. She has been broken up with me for over a month now and I still love her and she says she hates me now, when before she said, "I love you, I just can't be with you." I want her back and I want to make her happy. Everytime I tell her this she cry's. I don't know what to do, but let her go. Problem is I met her 8 yrs ago and knew this was the woman I was going to marry and after HS and 4 1/2 yrs in the Marine Corps I still feel this way. I love her so much, what do I do... let her go or continue to fight for her. Any feedback would be helpful I don't think it is that simple...
2006-07-01 21:32:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Two clues here. The opposite to love is indifference. Hate is disappointed love. That is. she still loves you.
She still loves you but is too scared to trust you. You should have listened to her when she was telling you. try to be sensitive to other people - you cant have it your own way all the time. She's a kind caring girl and needs you, but you have to convince her that you respect her needs.
good luck and take care.
2006-07-01 21:50:23 · answer #1 · answered by AJ... Australia 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
to start with it really isn't that simple....but i sadly believe if she is your match too and if you are meant to be together life will somehow make it happen.the only thing to do is not to let go of the idea, and let her know that whatever happens you will always be there for her , and that she can count on you whenever she wants.this is a way of showing her that u are not leaving.
2006-07-01 21:49:09 · answer #2 · answered by tourniquet232004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you as Brain Adams song , When you love some one , You do the crazy thing, do any crazy thing to take his attention.
2006-07-01 23:25:59 · answer #3 · answered by X UNI X 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD JUST GIVE HER SOME TIME TO HEAL AND FIGURE THINGS OUT ON HER OWN. THIS WAY IF SHE LOVES YOU SHE WILL FIND HER WAY BACK TO YOU
2006-07-01 21:47:23 · answer #4 · answered by <<SEXY MOMMA>> 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her time to breath and then you start all over again, time heals
2006-07-01 21:41:08 · answer #5 · answered by Tuxi X 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should do anythings that it make you and her happy. let's do it now, don't slowly.
NHT.
2006-07-01 21:45:08 · answer #6 · answered by Truong N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show her that you love her. show her... ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS!!! that is what i live by and that's what i preach
2006-07-01 21:36:44 · answer #7 · answered by robin_annalee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋