i mean really....what do you think about strippers?
do you think most of them are there becuase they are single moms or mabye they are going to school?
strippers have feelings and lives too
2006-07-01 20:50:43 · 26 answers · asked by ? 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Dancing
I think it's fine if you need the cash & have a good body, but not if you are dirty & sleep with people you strip for. As long as you are having fun & not hurting anyone then go for it.
2006-07-01 20:53:37 · answer #1 · answered by catsup 4 · 5⤊ 2⤋
Well.
In my younger days, (20-22) , I dated a couple strippers, ( as a musician, you get to know "night-life people"). Generally, they are your average everyday normal people.
Except: As a rule, they are VERY hard to get "close" to. In other words, they don't "wear their heart on their sleeve".
They are exhibitionist. Being naked is not an "unnatural state" for them. Although, that doesn't mean they like to strip. They just don't have "fear" about nudity, (or they can't afford too!).
MOST of them have had HORRIBLE childhoods. Rape, abuse, drugs, ETC. This horrible childhood permeates there whole personae, causing them to ask,"Am I a "Bad person" if I _____________?" (I've heard this question a couple times from strippers.)
All in all, strippers are "generally" just people who don't have any type of vocation and find it easier ,(and more lucrative), to strip than to work elsewhere. Is that lazy? I don't know.
I have met woman who were working on there Masters in Political Science at the strip club, stripping. I have met 19 YR olds who just want to make money & have fun stripping at the club. I have met married/single, mothers of 2 stripping at the club. I have met confused , Bi-Sexual , Art Majors, at the club, stripping. I have met addicted hookers at the club stripping,(amazingly enough, very few.). NONE of those girls were lazy!
I honestly feel pity for girls who decide to strip for there life. It is a HARD "life-style". And not an easy one!
If you can "ride the dragon" of stripping & NOT become an alcoholic, addicted to drugs, or LOSE FAITH in the "common man", then you've accomplished something.
To put it bluntly: I wouldn't want my 14 YR old to grow up and be a stripper,(but that doesn't mean I think less of strippers).
"When you dance with the Devil, the Devil don't change."
"You do!"
2006-07-01 21:45:47 · answer #2 · answered by Swamp Zombie 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I used to be a Taxi driver years ago in Vancouver BC, and I got to now many strippers. My opinion of them as people was that most were not single moms, although a few were, and they seemed to be a somewhat conflicted lot, who seemed to accept poor treatment from the men in their lives as normal. I felt sorry for them in a way, and by the way, I don't go to strippers as I don't get a kick out of watching a bunch of drunken men slobber and act like idiots.
2006-07-01 20:57:49 · answer #3 · answered by Crowfeather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend who was a stripper, she was not all that educated and was making about 200-500 a night in tips. I think that it was her choice. If I had a good body and could dance I would love to be a stripper. We all make our own choices, I have a dead end job but it was my choice not to study harder and be successful.
2006-07-01 21:57:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't care for them and they all have the same story. Most strippers have sex issues. A lot of strippers use drugs. Of course there is a lot of strippers who are good people, but for the most part they are legal prostitutes.
2006-07-01 21:36:20 · answer #5 · answered by 2sweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
l love to watch strippers and l think they are great but l actually met one and went home with her and realized she was a druggy and really had no aspirations other than to make as much money as she could before her breast sagged.
2006-07-01 21:00:53 · answer #6 · answered by meanblacktiger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there's one thing I've learned from Jerry Springer, it's this: you never date the stripper!!
2006-07-01 20:57:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's sad that many women demean themselves in order to resort to such employment because it is the only way they believe they can earn enough to survive. I do believe that there are other forms of employment if one where to choose a different lifestyle. But that is simply my opinion.
2006-07-01 20:57:55 · answer #8 · answered by cptdrinian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jelous of them making $1000 a night that I know
always lying.
HOT that strippers I know.
2006-07-02 05:04:18 · answer #9 · answered by Alan Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They gotta make money. Some may be there to make ends meet. Go to school or to make money for whateva. Some of em are there cuz they just wanna be. Either way it goes. They kool wit me.
2006-07-02 07:09:19 · answer #10 · answered by atl2004grl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stripers Are beautiful migrant fish, often, unfortunetly, reeled from the Hudson
2006-07-02 02:07:10 · answer #11 · answered by abebeesee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋