What can be said about this , a girl was 16 and boy 24 were in love for 4 yrs , they planned to marry when she turns 18, He got her admitted to Medical college , paying all her fee as she wanted to be a doctor. Spend a month with him at hotel room, enjoyed sex at beaches in South India . And when he asked for marriage, she earlier agreed and ran away with him but came back crying that she can't marry without mom permission and then she next came back once influenced byt mom , God knows!! but she never came back. Didn't reply to his phone call .Changed her nos. And later when the guy got married And I that guy's wife when heard the story felt bad. I did talk to her and she said...she loves him still but her circumstances didn't allow. She couldn't leave mom. I don't know if she is really being honest or trying to impress or again trying to seduce my hubby.??? If she loves him why she says she sacrificed her love to see him happy as his family didn't like her?? i fail to understand her.
2006-07-01 19:49:56 · 10 answers · asked by aarzooji a 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Was the girl right in what she did?
2006-07-03 18:49:20 · update #1
do let me know
2006-07-03 18:50:18 · update #2
To be honest with you this whole situation is moot at this juncture in time.
You're spending far too much time, effort and emotional energy in trying to discern the actions and reasonings of a person or people in a circumstance that is history.
Why not concentrate on and cultivate the pulling of your husband's attention back on YOU. Giving this kind of notoriety to this woman's intentions WILL certainly stir up your man's curiosity and pique his testostorone level.
Let it go girl, move on and bring your man and his libido with you!!! WORD...
Peace Out.
2006-07-15 19:06:41 · answer #1 · answered by blakelycollierbrown 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow..... that was quite the story. I think the girls mom was right in not letting her run away with a man soooo much older than her. Her mom never should of let the relationship happen in the 1st place and then there wouldn't be this problem. If they were together for 4 years and she was 16 that means she was only 12 when they met and he was 20...... Your hubby is a sick person if those ages are true! She probably is just trying to seduce your man. I'd keep her and your hubby far far away from each other if I was you.
2006-07-14 09:16:01 · answer #2 · answered by exotic69n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's hardly anything you can do in this situation. You can't stop her from loving your husband. As long as she keeps away from him and isn't literally trying to "seduce" him, things should be fine. After all, your husband did choose to marry you. Primarily she's too young to take decisions regarding marriage and should concentrate on her career. She hasn't sacrificed anything for anybody. She has behaved like a coward by being unable to follow her heart and is now paying the price for it.
2006-07-01 19:58:40 · answer #3 · answered by aparna_2oo4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are people who simply drift along, searching for somewhere they belong to in this world. Looking for a place to call their own, they want to know where they stand in life. Years go by, but the answers might still be unknown to them, even til their very last breath on their deathbeds. Maybe that's what this journey called life is all about.
But living life is never a waste. When we have somebody to love and something to hope for, we learn to embrace the true beauty of life. Cherish every moment of your life because once it's gone, it will never come back. Sometimes you miss it so badly that it hurts inside.
2006-07-14 15:25:24 · answer #4 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. ...holy cow! She is very smart indeed- in everything she did: she had him pay for school ...had him take her on an expensive vacation...and then she left. I understand completely why you feel threatened by her. I hope your husband is smarter now, because he definitely wasn't back then. By the way...I don't know how your guys laws are there, but wasn't their relationship illegal? If yes...he definitely thought with his d_ck. I truly hope that he closed that door. Tell your husband what your expectations are...so he knows what he will loose if he ever opens that door again.
2006-07-15 19:01:41 · answer #5 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the girl loved him but when it came to her to have a choice between him and her mom, she choose her mom. Mother who gave her birth , who was thr for her for her past 16 yrs.how could she leave her.Now just ask her not to come between his life again as u both are happy.
2006-07-01 20:02:11 · answer #6 · answered by siya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girl was still very young. The guy had no business seeing her at all- she was 12 when they met. Hell, he should have been arrested. He is very lucky that the girl's mother didn't press charges for rape.
2006-07-13 18:24:26 · answer #7 · answered by reme_1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she was 16,and u r trying to get her to take ur hubby now?
2006-07-15 05:34:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi dont allow her to in your hubby life it will spoil your life keep away your hubby from her
2006-07-01 22:30:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she did what her mom wanted her to do...
2006-07-15 06:00:25 · answer #10 · answered by murillo3193@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋