i met a woman online,we were together in ct. for 3yrs,we had some problems so moved back to ca. now im lost?

Question

i loved this woman with all my heart but the problems we had seemed unsolvable.it wasent till i got back to cali i relised i made the mistake of a life time..now she has closed her heart to me and im miserable

Answer 1

Have the humility to accept that which you cannot change, the courage to change the things you know you can and want to, and the wisdom to know the difference.

There are a few things that can help you, but they will require your attention, patience, and commitment. Are you game?

Here are some resources:
Books:
The Power Of Now - Eckhart Tolle
Coversations With God - Neale Walsch
The 7 Habits Of highly Effective People - Steven Covey

Website:
http://www.beliefnet.com/ - go to Belief_O_Matic

Action:
Take solice and peace in your chosen belief system. gather your pool of friends and supportive groups and talk about your situation. Most importantly, pay attention to your thoughts, feelings and reactions. observe yourself and choose differently from whatever doesn't represent the person you want to be in that moment. "Be the person you wish to see in the world," Said Gandhi.

Blessed Be!

Answer 2

good luck