ok, my girlfriend and i can argue probably once or twice a month or sometimes not at all. we have been going out for 6 months and total i think we've had around 7-8 fights its either over something really stupid or jelousy like for example i got my season pass taken away from me for some stupid **** i did with my friends and we got arrested for.. but she thinks that i lied about getting it taken away from me and thinks im going with a friend of mine that is a girl that i used to like in the past.. but when it came up she sometimes breaks down and crys when im pissed at her so she calls our relationships BS sometimes but when i ask if she wants to break up with me she says no and when we are done arguing we act like we are really in love and we treat eachother perfectly and she is amazing but i dont like it when these fights come up and it makes me feel like its hurting her more inside every time we do argue. so what should i do? -thanks
2006-07-01 19:14:24 · 5 answers · asked by skat3r_prep22 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are both experiencing jealousy issues, as you noted. Tackle these obsticals before anything else. Learn to trust your partner, if you don't, then why are you with them.
Trust trust trust. If you can't then your not ready for a relationship.
Matt
2006-07-01 19:20:57 · answer #1 · answered by MastaP 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe without realizing it, you're both creating these lil bouts for excitement and the thrill of making up. But the drama can really become overwhelming. + Over time it can take its toll on both ouf you. Try to be mature, honest and realistic with each other, and build on a positive relationship...by stopping these little feuds before they escalate.
2006-07-01 19:28:12 · answer #2 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to be leaving alot out of this question. How much time are you spending with this girl you use to like and why do you still hang out with her? I would be worried also if I were your girl. Do you maybe still have feelings for the other girl?
2006-07-01 19:26:39 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is soooooooo important... but fights happen even to the "best" of us. It's life! Just gotta learn how to let go of issues. Good luck.
2006-07-01 19:25:33 · answer #4 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people always hurt the ones they love. if you didnt love them you wouldnt hurt. just hang in there me an my girl fight every couple does. its nature.
2006-07-01 19:22:12 · answer #5 · answered by deathdealer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋