well he beaten the guys up and than i come from work and there were the 5 guys calling my house and cursing me out also telling me that i will go to court and all the drama that go with it. also the school got involved with this drama.you lost your trust from your family,and some of your friends too. but yet u still love him with all your heart. and will do what ever. plus he give u a disease with all the drama too. what do u do
2006-07-01 18:57:35 · 8 answers · asked by adelaide 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
its time for you to move on, this guy is nothing but trouble and he is bringing you down with him, due to everything you have went through you have lost the trust of your friends and family due to your problems in your relationship, they know you can do better and are at the end of their rope with your bad relationship, yet you still continue to love him even though you have lost the most important people who should always be there for you and he has proven that he is violent and has given you a disease and has caused you to have no one left who you can confide in about what is going on, he does not love you if he is putting you through all this, and doesnt care about your wellbeing since he could not tell you that he had a disease and showed no moral concern that he could give it to you, or the fact that depending on the disease that you may have to take medication and be dealing with it forever and could actually die from it, if you have no one to talk to try to talk to a counselor or a therapist who can help you realize that this guy is bad news and that you do not deserve to be treated this way and can also help you to repair your self esteem so that you will not put up with so much drama and violence in your next relationship and will not cause you to have broken trust with your friends and family members.....
2006-07-01 19:28:34 · answer #1 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know the answer to this then maybe you should go seek some help.
He beat up people, gave you a disease and tore the trust away from you and your family.....
You don't love him.... And he most certainly DOES NOT love you... If he did, then he wouldn't have done all this to you....
Talk to a councellor at school or someone at your church or whatever.... You need to talk to someone about this and worry about getting YOUR life back, not his love...
2006-07-02 02:01:05 · answer #2 · answered by kristijay99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want my personal opinion? If the he has beat up 5 guys, then it's likely that he has anger issues. If you stay with him, one day down the road when your married, he will likely turn that anger toward you, and then you will be the target for his anger issues. Not only will that be sad, but very dangerous (and I mean life threatening) for you, and any kids you have. A real bad situation to raise kids in to.
That's one very possible future. Best of luck to you.
2006-07-02 02:07:05 · answer #3 · answered by Microsoft Bob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were in that situation I would seek counseling for very low self-esteem. A person who is violent, spreads diseases and causes grief for you with your family is not an ideal partner.
2006-07-02 02:01:38 · answer #4 · answered by jd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exactly how much in love can you be with a man that has messed up your life. I think you need to sit back, think, and ask yourself exactly what good can come out of you staying with him. If it takes you to long to come up with an answer then you need to kick him to the curb.
2006-07-02 02:08:39 · answer #5 · answered by moniq118 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try one of those daytime TV talk shows...you might get paid for the drama and a free medical check up
wOrd
2006-07-02 02:04:08 · answer #6 · answered by Mad Max 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him.He is not worth all the drama.Look at all the problems he is causing you.If he lived you he wouldn´t have gotten you involved.
2006-07-02 02:13:31 · answer #7 · answered by christiana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Know what a hot rock is? drop him.
2006-07-02 02:01:26 · answer #8 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋