How do you know?

Question

How do you know when you falling out of love?

Answer 1

If your girlfriend flirts or goes out with another guy and you don't care....That would be a huge indication that you are not in love with her anymore.

If you are just experiencing that loss of a huge spark between you, then it could be, that you have been together for quite awhile. In THAT event, it's normal. Everybody loses that spark after awhile.

It's a temporary thing, ALWAYS. It NEVER lasts forever with ANYONE. That's why they say "You have to work to make a relationship last". It's not easy.

To keep a relationship alive, you must continue to go out on dates together and be spontaneous.

Go to the beach or do ANYTHING together.

Set up romantic evenings at home and outdoors.

If this does not apply to you, then you have drifted apart.
It's sad, but it happens all the time.

One or both of you have changed.

Answer 2

Try these 3 questions:
1. Are you generally happier when you're around the person than when you're not around them?
2. Do you feel like it's easier to be yourself when you're around the person than when you're not around them?
3. When you aren't with the person, do you wish you were, rather than wishing you weren't when you're with the person?

If you mostly answer yes, then hang in there. If the answers are usually no, you need to find someody who can make the answers come out yes. Sometimes that somebody is the same person, but it will take hard work and commitment by both to fix the relationship. Only you can decide whether it's worth it.

Answer 3

i would say when you start feeling like you dont want to be around her or spend time with her, when you start to not even realy talk to eachother anymore. when you look at her and dont feel like you need to wake up next to her everyday of your life, basically everything that you felt that made you fall in love with her if it does the opposite then your out of love. but the best thing to do before you make any decisions is to sit and talk about her, see what she feels about the two of you, and maybe it can be fixed, maybe you two are just getting bored and need to do some new things together, try and fix it first before any decisions you make. good luck.

Answer 4

~When you can't stand having sex.
~You find yourself flirting and thinking of other people.
~When you go out of your way not to be around her/him.
~When you find yourself not talking about things and or even lying.
~When you think about the future and you don't see that person in it.
~When the bad times out wiegh the good times.
~When the thought of he or she being with some one else does not bother you.
~When you don't sleep together or even eat meals together.
~When you would rather walk away or argue instead of talking things out.
~When you just don't care what the other person does.
~When you stop acknowledging holidays, birthdays and even buying stop buying small gifts like flowers for no reason at all.

Answer 5

Think of a time when you were happiest with your partner... if it doesn't bring a smile to your face or butterflies to your stomach, you are falling out of love, or have all ready hit bottom

Answer 6

When you don't want to see this person anymore. When you want to move on and do stuff. When you're 85%(or up) depressed and 15% (or down) happy. When you don't even really want to pick up the phone when she calls. If you decide to break up with her. Please do it nicely. Cause she was someone you loved and still care about ( even if it's a little bit ).

Answer 7

You think of ways to get away from them.
You think of what it would be like to be with someone else.
You are not in a good mood when they come around.
You don't want to have sex with them anymore.
They irritate you.
You don't think they are as attractive as they used to be.
You don't want to do nice things for them anymore.
You talk bad about them.

Don't stick around and wait for love to re-kindle. It won't.

Answer 8

omg this question accuatly makes me think...but if i find the one i truly love..i dont want to know that we are falling out of love...i'll probably be scared if that happens...i wouldn't know what to do..sorry man..i don't know how to answer your question :(

Answer 9

When the person who used to leave you breathless just annoys you.
When you want to be anywhere but around them.
When you just don't feel the connection anymore...
It's a sad thing.
I hope you can sort it out...

Answer 10

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Good luck