Do you feel an amazing but heavily flawed person is someone you should choose to assosciate with?

Question

Imagine the greatest person you could ever meet, and actually meeting them, except they have a couple of major flaws. The flaws are not something such as a lack of virtue, but rather difficulties that they have. Perhaps they can't trust you with anything, or something such as that. How would you feel about being friends with such a person?

Answer 1

All depends on the flaws. If there's the possibility of danger, then I wouldn't want to be around them.

If it's something I can help them with, then sure. I used to have no friends because I was too shy and not popular. Then one person became my friend in high school and by the end of school I had plenty more. Some people just need someone to help them through their flaws.

Answer 2

Everyone I know, no matter how amazing has some flaws. I don't know what you mean by major flaws, but I know some pretty amazing people and they all have some baggage and some flaws. That' s just the way life is. You have to accept the good with the bad and you have to decide if you love a person enough the way they are to put up with whatever is wrong with them. To me you are asking, what if you meet someone amazing, and you find out they are human?

Answer 3

well i would try and overcome that kind of stuff, trust is something that you need with a friend, but if you always drive yourself everywhere and not carpool with them , nad you trust your judgment when something sounds fishy then it might be ok, i dont know trust is something you need to an extent. everything else can be worked around unless it is illegal.

Answer 4

this amazing person doesn't trust you? thats weird...

but u gotta remember beauty doesn't make a person, their flaws do. they seperate them from the rest.

Answer 5

idk just get to know the person and see if those flaws can be worked out, or at least made better.