Help i recently got into a car crash that left me alive with two very big scars that covers one of my bottom half of one of my legs and my entire belly..i use to be a stripper but the scars has put an abrupt hault to that fantasy my relatioship of 3yrs came to an end because of him not being able to stand to look at them even though he kissed them often or maybe its me that losed the confidence i once had in myself how do i get past these scars how do i move on into another relationship with this on my once could live with body ...im thinkin maybe a tattoo i dont know and man how do i miss srtiping...im looking for answers plz help
2006-07-01 18:09:27 · 5 answers · asked by miss-curiosity 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
Did he really leave you because of scars? If he did, good riddance. Who wants a significant other who can't love you unless you're perfect? Because if that's what he seeks, it is he who is imperfect.
With your next man, my advice is not to make a big deal about the scars. If you act as if you are unworried about them, he probably won't be either. And if you act unworried, eventually you will BECOME unworried yourself. I think that men get tired of women whom they perceive need constant reassurance and want to be with a woman who is confident in her sexuality regardless of imperfections. If you're not confident, fake it, lol.
Eventually there may be some cosmetic surgery that can fix your scars -- but as I sit here looking at my own scars, I warn you that even expensive surgical repair may never achieve 100%. My feet are terribly scarred but ironically... I actually like them. LOL and that's really the truth.
Good luck to you.
2006-07-01 18:24:55 · answer #1 · answered by liberteabelle 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Learn to live with them. Look at it as a battle scar of life, just like losing a loved one scars your heart. Go to school or find something else you love, stripping won't last forever. As far as the bf, it made him shallow to leave. Thescars are apart of who you are. Believe me on this one. I've had four heart operation, gall bladder taken out, scars from intravenice lines and regular old childhood. I still go to the beach with out a shirt on and my wife loves me for who I am.
2006-07-01 18:26:51 · answer #2 · answered by Rycher 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off be glad your alive. Not all men care about your physical looks. As far as the stripping, let it go. Go to school, learn something new and eventually you will meet someone who does not care about your scars. They don't change who you are inside.
2006-07-01 18:14:23 · answer #3 · answered by Birdlegs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Homeopathic remedy CALENDULA OINTMENT is the best known in the buisness to make scars vanish or to heal deep gashes and wounds.
Take Care and God Bless !
2006-07-01 21:32:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try plastic surgery, I know it can make your scars look better. Talk to a plastic surgeon
2006-07-01 18:16:22 · answer #5 · answered by money matters 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋