2006-07-01 18:06:52 · 23 answers · asked by clikkparker 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I didn't mean to sound like I didn't enjoy it or whatever, he just acts like it is not important, so I can't read him.. I just want a general opinion about it.
2006-07-02 07:47:38 · update #1
Oral sex is not a one way street. (You're gonna get all the cliches here.) What is important about your performing orally for him is a bit of tit-n-tat. He should perform oral sex for you. If a man is turned on by oral sex, a woman can be even more so. To make it right, he should go down on you first, then you will be more excited about doing him next. This is the way it works best.
2006-07-01 21:40:56 · answer #1 · answered by Nightwriter21 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's give & take in any relationship...and men do appreciate the effort. However, if it's something that you really don't enjoy so much, then save it for special occassions (birthdays, holidays)...this way you won't be expected to perform this any other time and he has something to look forward to!! But honestly, you should try different ways to enjoy it more. If it's a gagging thing, try using throat numbing spray...if it's the taste, dunk it in some wine or beverage of your choice (footnote: make sure it's not a steamy mug of coffee!! *owchies*). Men love this...I mean *LOVE* this! Find out what it is that you don't like about it and work around it.
2006-07-02 01:37:48 · answer #2 · answered by auntcookie84 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every man is different so it's very hard to say. As for me, I don't care to recieve oral at all! I love giving my wife oral pleasure and she enjoys it. If it's not a big deal to him, experiment with different positions, possilby do some fantasy role playing during sex.
Find out what really turns him on and make sure it is something that you can enjoy also.
Good luck!!
2006-07-03 04:29:46 · answer #3 · answered by Ekimo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think for any man, whether a real manly man or not, oral sex is a big deal. Is he big on the idea of oral sex? Keep your man happy, (to a certain extent) and he won't look else where.
2006-07-01 18:11:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask your husband. All men generally respond to oral sex. Some love it. (Most love it.) Some could take it or leave it -- especially from a partner that is not genuinely into it herself. If your husband loves it and you don't do it very often or very well... you do the math. But you won't know until you ask him.
2006-07-01 20:04:56 · answer #5 · answered by Clayton B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every man I've ever met will go get head somewhere else if the wife don't give it.That's just my experience.I've seen men married for years and go out and get blowjobs cause the wife didn't give them and YES as gross as it is...it REALLY,REALLY is that big of a deal to them,even the good ones and the real ones.
2006-07-01 18:16:06 · answer #6 · answered by just a girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-14 03:35:11 · answer #7 · answered by ortuno 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not top of my list. Once in awhile it's nice for a change of pace. But I like "parking the car in the garage"! There's nothing better.
The fact remains you're not married to me. You're married to your man and all indications are that HE likes it. SO your choices are limited. You can become uncomfortable with it and watch him desire it (maybe some chick in his office likes it) or you can adapt and overcome your own desires as a love gift to your husband. If you love him then it's a small price to keep him happy.............isn't it?
2006-07-01 18:48:22 · answer #8 · answered by hoyhoydc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A real man would'nt care. I would gladly pass it up and be happy as hell to lay down and make love to my wife. Look at it this way boys have them to. A real man Knows that little petty crap don't matter.
2006-07-01 18:16:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oral sex is a part of for-play. I'm sure there is something you can do to stimulate your husband. Talk it over with him. Sounds like you have a hangup about oral sex.
2006-07-01 18:15:03 · answer #10 · answered by Kojak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋