If in the military, is it wrong if you're away from your girlfriend for 6 months to a year and you have intercourse w/ someone? I mean, it's a natural desire, right?
2006-07-01 17:48:55 · 27 answers · asked by Josh T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
its still wrong. No matter HOW u try to justify it.
2006-07-01 17:50:01 · answer #1 · answered by Vidra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is wrong,because if you are in Love with the person and have a genuine relationship then it shouldn't matter how bad you have a desire. When going without for 6 months or a year when you and your other half comes back together it will be all that more special for the both of you. And that is masturbation is about.
2006-07-01 17:57:45 · answer #2 · answered by fast 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the military for 8 years and your lack of restraint has nothing to do with serving your country. Being disrespectful to the military and unfaithful is not natural nor acceptable in any aspect. If you are in a relationship-you have a commitment that is exclusive. Being a cheat is just being dishonest and selfish. Using being away and especially the excuse that you are in the military is disturbing. You are just a pathetic cheat with no self-discipline! I hope your girlfriend is smarter than you and hits the road quickly!
2006-07-01 17:58:47 · answer #3 · answered by azguitar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it IS wrong if you are in a relationship with someone! If it's a natural desire for you, then you are not really committed to this girl.
2006-07-01 17:55:21 · answer #4 · answered by tantalizin1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's a natural desire. What's wrong is placing that above the mutual trust you have with your girlfriend.
So, you're learning something -- that your appetites are more important to you than being close to someone.
2006-07-01 17:53:41 · answer #5 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok.
Tell me if your girlfriend has an intercourse with someone else when you are not there with her. Is it wrong? if you feel this is wrong then how can you be right?
Take care. dont justify mistakes, accept them and try to make up for it. Rules are rules for males as well as females.
2006-07-01 18:09:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only under one circumstance: you are honest with her and tell her before you do it and she says that it's okay; in addition, you also accept that she does that with someone while you're gone also cause it's her natural need as well. If you're both okay with it there should be no problem. Good luck finding a woman with self esteem low enough to agree to it.
2006-07-01 17:52:27 · answer #7 · answered by Keith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think so. if you're really serious about each other, you should wait until your back home to have intercourse. of course its a natural desire, but if you have a commited, serious relationship, then you shouldn't.
2006-07-01 17:51:38 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, you shouldnt stay with her if you plan on running around on her. Be a man and let her go so she can find someone worth dating, someone who wont cheat on her.
Secondly, it doesnt matter how long you are apart. If your with someone, your with that person. You shouldnt try to ease your guilty mind by telling yourself its "okay" because you havent seen her in 6-12 months.
2006-07-01 17:53:38 · answer #9 · answered by ~ Amanda ~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, i would say it is wrong!! If you are committed to a person and have not talked about having an "open-relationship" then it is wrong. What ever happened to self control, self discipline or good ole' handcream and taking care of yourself?? Though i know in our society today, not many people practice these things anymore, so sad..........
2006-07-01 17:53:27 · answer #10 · answered by Michele S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you think it wrong if you found out your girlfriend was giving in to her "Natural Desire"? Put yourself in her shoes.
2006-07-01 17:53:04 · answer #11 · answered by U.S. Army NCO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋