my husband said he is not inlove with me....he just used the words love.he said he loves me but he is not inlove with me...he is inlove with his ex gf (18 yrs.ago)he said that she is still in his heart and mind...were been married for 2 years now...
2006-07-01 17:39:38 · 9 answers · asked by capricorn girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hate to be blunt... But get a divorce. Love means me cares about you as a human being, but not in a romantic way. I'm not sure why he married you to begin with. You should be asking him these things (if you're not already packing your bags, which I'd also suggest). Sorry if it sounds harsh, but he doesn't deserve you.
2006-07-01 17:45:01 · answer #1 · answered by Mary S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From my experience, when you 'love" someone, its basically the same feeling you have toward any of your friends. You might have some ties to that person, but youre not missing something if youre not with them.
On the other hand, I'm now totally "in love" with my husband. I feel like he's part of me. If we're having a spat or some sort of disagreement, I feel totally lost, like I'm not myself any longer. But when things are going well, it's amazing. We laugh and smile at each other for no real reason. We hug each other and hold hands and we're always touching each other in some way. We tell each other "i love you" probably 100 times a day. I've never felt this way about any one else.
To me, thats the difference between loving someone and being In Love.
2006-07-01 17:54:36 · answer #2 · answered by tonysdoll815 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is like you are family. His brother, sister, mom,and dad.....that's love. In love: means you are really feeling that person. It is meant to be. Like being married to your husband or wife. I don't know why he would tell you something like that because that is really degrading. You need to talk to him and find out why he really married you because it seems like he married you for the wrong reasons.....I hope you do not have children by him, because he is not right. He is just your friend not your husband....I wish my hubby would tell me that he was not in love with me......I would be gone!!! History.......finding me someone that was truly in love with me.....I hope he does not treat you wrong......you are a good one.....but I really believe he is trying to tell you something.......
2006-07-01 18:19:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anastacia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well old love is very hard to forget especially if he was turned down
in love_ i always think of u, what can i do to make u happy, i would die for u- love- i will protect u, i need u, u make me happy, i will go to the end of the world for u
he does love u, or else u would have never lasted two yrs
2006-07-01 17:46:54 · answer #4 · answered by gothicangelalways 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is overated anyways,But here is your answer love is like loving your mom or dad or sister or friend,it's conditional..being in-love is your heart and soul telling you that no one else is better with you than the one you are with..
2006-07-01 17:59:05 · answer #5 · answered by xhalted1ne 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow i feel sorry for you especially if you are still madly in love with him i would if you are strong enough ask him to leave do you really want to stay with someone who is in-love with someone else. a man always wants what he cant have so if you show him that you dont want him it will only make him want you more. trust me it works
2006-07-01 19:56:47 · answer #6 · answered by corvairchick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you must feel very hurt, but he is an asshole, sorry you married him, he has been playing with you - and now going back to his ex. Get rid of him quickly - you deserve someone better - and don't beg him to change
2006-07-01 17:57:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in-love: means you will be there any time day/night for sickness and in health. they will never leave your side. not a minute goes by that you dont thank god for your other half.
love: means they will be there for a sholder to cry on, help in a time of need, go an extra mile to help you. help in a time of need.
2006-07-01 17:51:26 · answer #8 · answered by sandy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love to me means you just care for someone but in love means you have very very strong feelings and all that gay stuff.
2006-07-01 17:44:14 · answer #9 · answered by SugaNuts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋