Well....... my life is a bit screwed right now.... it was going great though. So now I found out my friend has got a girl pregnant as he was drunk and high on Meth, and that my girl friend who I love(i mean love) is a bit confused right now and she just got grounded for like the whole summer....... I am feeling sick to my stomach and geting head aches..... I can't believe my friend and I wanna be with my girl friend.... I am also trying to help both too.... god I need some help on what to do next.....
2006-07-01 17:37:55 · 7 answers · asked by Daniel M 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I was having a great life until these last few days and keeping the secret about my friends baby and not being able to be with my girl friend is destroying me inside.... i just wanna lay in my room all day....
2006-07-01 17:40:39 · update #1
By the way my friend is telling his baby problem tommorow to an adult
2006-07-01 17:44:18 · update #2
No he didnt get my girl friend pregnant, it is some girl he didnt even no until she called and told him the news
Also, I am gonna talk to her parents about the grounding and I wanna see if they can make some exceptions so she can see me.
2006-07-02 14:38:29 · update #3
Why did your girlfriend get grounded for the summer? Maybe if you were not involved and ask her parents, they will let you visit. Sometimes, after parents cool down they ease up. As far as your other friend, maybe this will be the wake up call that gets his life straightened out and off the drugs. Hopefully he will stand up and do the right thing for the child. As a friend, all you can do is be there for them in thier darkest hour, and know that good times will be coming again.
2006-07-01 17:55:37 · answer #1 · answered by psycmikev 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to encourage your friend to tell his parents and for him to get his girlfriend to tell hers. As far as not seeing your girl. Can you still talk to her just a little? If not when you know she's going to town just "accidentally" run into her. I hope everything works out for you. Try not to take on others problems so much, that's what I done and I was miserable the whole time. Try writing stuff down or it's going to get EXTREMELY overwhelming. Good Luck. e-mail me if you want or need to chat.
2006-07-01 17:46:48 · answer #2 · answered by Bast 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awh??? u poor baby. it's practically normal. but you'll get over it. just when u're a few more days removed from the situation start dating again, or just talkin to other females. so u can move on. but u don't want to surround yourself with that type of drama. but if u can stand to be without her. forgive her. i mean truly forgive her. then take her back. it can work it sounds like my situation a little but witout the drugs. if u wanna contact me to talk about it u can
2006-07-01 17:47:28 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont understand did he get ur girl pregnat? if so **** him he aint no friend if not then stick by his side help him out as much as u can and if he did get ur girl pregnat then **** her she never loved u then drugs and alcohle aint a excuse if not dont worry her parents will let her come out soon they wont let her stay in there all summer they will want a break sooner or later
2006-07-02 09:26:11 · answer #4 · answered by slb_angel_2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should tell an adult however what was your friend thinking doing meth. what he doesn't like his brain cells. he wants to be living on the streets cuz he sold everything in his house for one drug that is very addicting . i KNOW THEY HAVE BEENING TELLING YOU THE DANGOUS OF THIS DRUG .
2006-07-01 17:48:20 · answer #5 · answered by chocolate m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell these problems to a trusted adult, not to us here on Yahoo! Answers.
2006-07-01 17:43:27 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to ur parent or sumthing
2006-07-01 20:27:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋