Okay, my guy friend is in a serious and very loving realtionship with another girl, and I really want to be happy for him and her (and no be b*tchy) but I cant stop feeling constantly angry, depressed, and jealous. I know that being with this guy will not be good for me, as he has alot of problems and issues, but in order to feel better and stop being depressed, I start daydreaming about him and its the only way I feel better! Is there anyway I can stop liking him, cause I really want to?!? Help, I've liked him for 10 months now!!!!
2006-07-01 16:49:02 · 7 answers · asked by Aimee 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
well i hate to tell ya this but ya kinda cant. the only way ya can stop liking him is if another guy came into your life or ya move on. otherwise i really dont know. i used to be in the same situation until i met my bf and started going out wit him. as a frend to him u should just always be there for him and help him in any problems. n try not to disrespect his gf that he has or ever well have. at least be a good frend to him still. thatz the best u could do.
2006-07-02 04:08:08 · answer #1 · answered by RAND0M CHiCk_♥ 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
it seem like u really care about him and there's no other way around it talk to him in private w/o his gf there an d tell him how u feel but don't go all mushy-gushy and b4 u tell him add "I'm about to tell you something but first don't anything u might regret later on just keep an open might a tell him 2 keep it between y'all 2" and if that doesn't work just let him go since he's in a serious relationship and all just give it time
2006-07-02 11:37:27 · answer #2 · answered by sexihaitian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him and tell him how you feel. It's what I would do. What if he feels the same way and is hiding it. Plus you don't won't to live your life knowing you didn't tell him how you felt. 10 months? That is a long time. talk to him tell him what you told us.
I wish you luck and oh there is no way to stop liking or loving someone.
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2006-07-01 23:55:59 · answer #3 · answered by ▒Яenée▒ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just stop thinkin about him when ever you try to think of him then just start thinking of another thing and when ur around him just look at him as a brother!!!!!!!!!!1
2006-07-01 23:56:01 · answer #4 · answered by dA BOSS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the only reason that you think about him is that you obviously care about him...DUH. so like unless you express your feelings to him then you wont stop likeing him.:( good luck
2006-07-01 23:54:17 · answer #5 · answered by VaMpIrA 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i had the same prob but he wasnt in a relation ship the ppl told me to move on, and if u think thats wat u should do there r plenty of ppl in the world
2006-07-03 19:51:24 · answer #6 · answered by 2hott4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find another guy
2006-07-03 14:47:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋