What to do about my annoying guy friend?

Question

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My guy friend (whom I will admit to having a crush on) just got together with a girl a month ago and hes being just totally sick about it. I thought he was still in the annoying "bubbly stage" of his realtionship, but its lasting WAY too long. I have tried to be polite, I have tried to help him, give him advice, and he trusts me, but I dont care that he feels like hes going to die when his gf goes on a two week vacation. How incredibly STUPID and ATTACHED to a girl do you have to be to feel like your dying when she is gone for two weeks? Chances are, he says, they'll still be able to contact each other. I also hate hearing about the first time they held hands, or the first time they hugged, it just makes me more angry and jealous, and I DONT WANT TO BE THIS WAY, i want to be happy for him, but hes making it hard on me! Hes driving me mad, and I've already said a couple things I regretted later. What do I do? Is there any chance this realtionship will cool down?

Answer 1

Learn to be cool with it! He loves his gf. There is nothing you can do about it and I find it really sweet that he cares for her. He is telling you cause he trusts you. Don't make him feel like all this time he has come to you when really you weren't there to care like he though. Just listen to him, in time he might appreciate that and you might come in .