He is 2 yers older than me.
We are in the same class.
2006-07-01 16:14:30 · 11 answers · asked by Nour 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
This is just a crush and i'm sure if you put off your desire and aim your focus more on school and studying, your desire will wear off. I'm not so sure telling this guy or your friend is such a good idea. It can get messy and you might regret. Would you be able to live with the fact that your best friend know and the guy knows, if the guy says "sorry, i don't feel the same way?". This guy doesn't sound trustworthy if he's been going on and off with your best friend. He'll probably do the same with you in the long run. Do look for a better guy who will stay your boyfriend at least for more than 2 months! 2 months is enough to have lots of innocent lovey-dovey fun going out with a guy. I'm sure your better than this dodgy guy he sounds to be!
2006-07-01 16:42:53 · answer #1 · answered by Ally 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok definetely don't tell him 1st. what happens if he's the one to tell your friend the way u feel?? who do you think it'll be better coming from??? i think you should wait and see what happens with them... sooner or later they'll move on and if you still like him then, you should tell him. but you also shouldn't expect anything. if you expect the worse than you'll spend GOD knows how long worrying about it, if you expect the best, than your time could feel wasted. just don't worry things'll work out. maybe not the way you've planned, but you'll be ok with it.
2006-07-10 19:18:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok this is bad. IF u tell the friend first then it might jeperdize ur friendship or she might step aside. but if u tell the guy first u can get an answer from him if he doesnt like u.u wont hurt ur friendship with ur friend.
hope this helps!
2006-07-10 18:42:44 · answer #3 · answered by texan_alliecat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think so. if you tell him and he decides that he likes you..your relationship with your best friend will be over. if your really best friends with her and you dont want to lose your friendship i wouldnt tell him. basically the question you have to ask yourself is if you would rather give up a chance with him or your friendship with her
2006-07-01 23:30:09 · answer #4 · answered by heather 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! It might jeopardize your friendship, and you know crushes come on go, and I know it might sound cheesy but friendships that last are more important. I know I have been in your situation and I am so glad I kept it to myself.
2006-07-01 23:23:53 · answer #5 · answered by ingamit2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are they both in love?????? In that case, let them be, say a silent prayer for them.
In case you are not sure, ask your friend how exactly she feels about the guy; if she is serious about him, wish her all the best; if not reveal your feelings to her and ask her to help you.......
2006-07-09 02:43:18 · answer #6 · answered by dark and beautiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never go near my friends' men. Off limits.
2006-07-10 04:14:44 · answer #7 · answered by julielove327 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like him then when hes not with your best friend tell him becuz if he isnt with your best frienda t the time then you are not betraying him you know?? good luck... ---mackenzie
2006-07-11 00:09:08 · answer #8 · answered by Brittany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be a friend. NEVER DATE THE GUY YOUR FRIEND LIKE (you would NEVR want that to happen to you) AND IF IT IS UR BEST FRIEND, JSUT THE THOUGHT OF IT IS WRONG!!
2006-07-10 15:18:56 · answer #9 · answered by dark_rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he's going with ur best frend...do not consider him..coz that might spoil ur relation with ur frend...
2006-07-10 23:53:53 · answer #10 · answered by aru 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋